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When Confidence is based on knowing that you're living your Values, it's unshakable. When it's based on things and actions, it needs to be constantly reassured and reinforced, like writing in the sand at the beach.

A class on increasing income while decreasing stress, through civility and empathy... And it's not just for attorneys. :D

Attorney Civility and Professionalism - Adding Tools to the Adversarial Toolbox Attorney Civility and Professionalism presented by Ian Blei and Russell Jackman, Esq. for The Center for Continuing Education

Working my butt off as if it wasn't a holiday, but life is life. 😉

Well I'm discovering I have a lot of incorrect addresses (both physical and email) so with the bounce rate I'm getting with both, I'm gonna put this up to maybe reach some folks I missed. Hope it brings a giggle! 😁

Check out 'Sled Race' on JibJab.com Cast yourself in a wild winter sled race that'll have you laughing all the way to the finish line!

A very intelligent article on prejudice, especially in the wake of increasing, unfounded, small-minded antisemitism. Goes back to my bugaboo about "labels" and "categories" being inaccurate and dangerous.

Apparently a lot of people's ISPs don't like Constant Contact (70 bounces!!!!) so here's the yar end thank you I wish had gone thru. (there's a podcast so you don't have to read it. :D )
http://www.optimized-results.com/Integram1223.htm

We need to include up to now and transcend. Not just summarily toss what got us this far. Mozart listened to Bach. The Beatles listened to Howlin' Wolf. Everything that went "before" has value, at least as foundation and understanding.

The December Integram goes out on Tuesday (the 5th) but here's a hint... the empty cup will return as a part of it... what are you thinking about while someone is talking to you?

We're going to be in this for some time to come. Here are some tools and resources for you to help get by.

COVID-CopingSpecials After just one session my partner and I were able to move through conflict in a non-blaming and curious way, eager to explore how our innate differences worked in our relationship. As a psychotherapist, I would recommend this process to the couples I see for relationship therapy!

"Kind Ambition" is on sale, for a little great reading while cooped up in "shelter in place."

"Binary, zero-sum, win/lose approaches are simplistic, unimaginative, and non-sustainable. OUR way beats my way or your way." Chap. 11.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/communication-actions-optimized-results-ian-blei-1c/

Communication Actions for Optimized Results (click for (podcast) Action Steps for Success There are steps you can take right now, that will help you achieve success with less stress and more joy. They don’t require any expense, and they're within your grasp.

It's almost here...
http://www.optimized-results.com/Events.htm