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10/02/2026

As long as you feel good, your business is going great… right?

This is the exact Good Girl trap that keeps your revenue reactive instead of repeatable.

If your business only “works” when:

💪🏼 you feel confident enough to sell
🥰 clients are buying so you feel safe holding your prices
❤️ your engagement is popping so you feel motivated to post
💁🏻‍♀️ the answers feel obvious so decisions feel easy

…then your revenue isn’t actually built on a solid foundation... It’s built on whether or not your nervous system feels okay that day.

So the second Stripe slows down or a launch goes quiet or someone unsubscribes or says no...your whole entire system collapses.
You stop selling until you “feel like it” again. You discount to get a yes so YOU can feel better. You change the offer or the price or your strategy instead of changing your actual behavior.

That’s the Good Girl tax 💰 running your revenue. And we know the Good Girl is obsessed with being validated by external circumstances.

Repeatable, predictable revenue comes from you being able to:
➡️ know what works
➡️ change what doesn’t
➡️ keep selling and showing up even when you don’t feel amazing and the outcome isn’t guaranteed yet.

And this is so hard to do because the initial Good Girl reaction to things not working is to GO FIX IT. 🛠️ Because that’s what Good Girls do- they don’t just SIT THERE- they fix s**t.

But that’s you REACTING in your business; not running it in a way that’s going to create

If you’re lowkey realizing your business only really functions when you’re feel good… this is exactly what we’re ending in the Good Girl Unleashed Virtual Retreat in November.

We’re going to:
👀 expose where the Good Girl is running your revenue
😫 look at what it’s actually costing you in energy, time, clients, and money
💪🏼 and decide what you’re DONE messing around with so your business stops depending on whether you woke up confident today

Comment “RETREAT” for the deets!

10/01/2026

So many of you are out here performing a version of yourself you hope your imaginary rich client approves of... and it’s keeping your bank account flat AF.

One of my clients told me this week:

I’m showing up on Instagram, watering down what I want to say because I feel like I need to be respectable... because that’s what I think the people who are going to pay me want from me.

It’s a never-ending job interview that you’re never going to win.

And it’s exactly what Good Girl conditioning looks like in business:

🫠 Appropriate is safer than becoming unforgettable.
🫠 You literally water things down and rewrite things that could have people thinking certain things about you.
🫠 And you build your content around what’s acceptable instead of what’s true for you.

On the outside, it looks fine.
On the inside, it feels like fear of someone pulling the curtain back and seeing the real you.

And the cost of this, is that you’re totally forgettable; no one is moving or buying. And the woman who would happily pay you can’t feel you at all.

Good Girls audition to be liked by everyone.
Leaders build brands that are specific, true, and a little polarizing on purpose.

Good Girls think: “Will they think I’m worth it?”
Leaders think: “Can they handle the way I lead?”

The next level, where the Good Girl Unleashed comes to play, is the woman who’s willing to be misunderstood so the right people can recognize her & feel her.

If you’re feeling this and where you’ve been auditioning instead of leading… that’s exactly what we’re dismantling inside the Good Girl Unleashed Virtual Retreat in November.

We’re going to find every spot in your business where you’re still performing for approval and make the calls on what changes- so your voice, your prices, and your boundaries start matching the woman you actually are, not the one trying to be liked.

Comment RETREAT or DM me RETREAT and I’ll send you the details.

This is the story of the little girl who became the “Good Girl” CEO.And it’s not just my story- it’s most likely part of...
09/29/2026

This is the story of the little girl who became the “Good Girl” CEO.

And it’s not just my story- it’s most likely part of your story, too.

She learned to be likable. To do things the “right” way. The chase the gold star and to not make anyone uncomfortable.

And now she’s a successful, exhausted business owner who:
➡️ questions every decision like it’s her hobby.
➡️ hides what she really wants to say as as not to offend anyone online.
➡️ feels like something is wrong when things are easy.
➡️ keeps moving the goalpost so she never feels “done”
➡️ stays in research mode instead of making a decision because there’s no room for rejection in research mode.

On paper, everything looks good.
In her soul, it feels like constant pressure.

This is what happens when your business is being driven by an old identity that was built to keep you safe, liked, and approved of- not powerful, fully-expressed, and well-resourced.

You don’t need another strategy. You don’t need more clarity. And you don’t need another rebrand. You need to unravel the Good Girl rules that are still running the show in your business.

Because until you do, you’ll keep saying yes when you want to say no, calling it “alignment” and “clarity” when it’s actually fear, and building a business that basically has a choke hold on you; it looks good from the outside but doesn’t feel good to live inside of.

If you read this & recognized yourself…

This is exactly what we’re unraveling at the Good Girl Unleashed Virtual Retreat in November- so you can stop running a Good Girl business with a CEO title slapped on top, and actually lead like the woman who you are now.

All the details + your spot are in my bio, or you can shoot me a DM with the word “RETREAT.”

09/28/2026

If every slow week sends you into “burn 🔥 it all down and start over” mode… that’s not a strategy problem.

That’s the Good Girl Tax.

The part of you that can’t tolerate feeling uncertain or unvalidated, so:

➡️ every dip must mean “I’m doing something wrong”
➡️ every quiet week becomes “my offer is broken”
➡️ every wobble turns into a full overhaul of your business

And the real cost isn’t that one slow month. It’s the constant changing of offers, pricing, messaging and strategy… so nothing gets enough time to actually work. Not to mention the spiral that happens in your brain that’s taking up a lot of fcking time and space.

Repeatable revenue doesn’t mean you never have dips. It just means you stop making every dip proof that you’re failing.

👀 If this lands, you’re exactly who I created the Good Girl Unleashed Virtual Retreat for.

For 48 hours in November, you’re checking into a hotel in your hometown so you can:

✅ mapping where the Good Girl is still running your decisions inside your business.
✅ name what it’s really costing you in money, energy, and confidence
✅ decide what you’re done paying for and how you’re going to lead instead

You’ll leave with a clear plan for how you’re running your business next quarter- without burning it all down every time revenue wobbles or you feel unsteady or someone says “that’s too expensive.” 🫠

👉 If you know you’re done paying the Good Girl Tax in your business, you should be in this room.

Comment “RETREAT” or DM me “RETREAT” and I’ll send you the deets.

09/26/2026

Only one person signed up for my Sales Unleashed Experience.

Most people would’ve cancelled. Because how embarrasing, right? The Good Girl business owner would’ve taken it as a sign to hide, to reschedule, to pretend it never happened.

I didn’t.

I ran Sales Unleashed like the room was full.
I delivered the Sales Unleashed method.
I treated it as opportunity to keep getting information.

And here’s what came out of that room:

💬 “I realized I’ve been making assumptions about what to do in my business.”
💬 “I finally see my patterns… and they’re not actually tied to revenue.”
💬 “This helped me create an actual process for how I can create sales.”

This ⬆️ didn’t happen because the room was packed.
It happened because I chose to lead when most people would’ve hid.

And this is the part most women don’t want to look at:

You say you want consistent sales… But you’re still making “good girl” decisions with your business:
➡️ Only running the thing if “enough” people sign up
➡️ Watering down your delivery if the room is small
➡️ Waiting for perfect optics before you act like a leader, before you actually become the leader

The room size isn’t your problem.
Your capacity to lead when it’s not “big enough” or IG worthy yet is.

Sales Unleashed is the method I used in that room. And the Good Girl Unleashed Mastermind is where we burn 🔥 the pattern that keeps you from ever getting in the room in the first place.

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