Wander with Abby

I'm not going to sugar coat it...starting a business is HARD...

But you want to know what else is hard?

- living paycheck to paycheck, stressed about not knowing if your bank balance will hold till the end of the month.

- the guilt of missing important moments with friends & family because you're tied to a job that demands way more than it gives.

- the debt that weighs you down following you like a constant companion overshadowing your dreams.

- the small piece of you that dies a little each time you say no to life's little joys and adventures you crave to experience.

- longing to travel, to explore, to immerse yourself in new cultures and sights but the feeling of being anchored by financial constraints holds you back.

This is the reality for so many I talk to on a daily basis is HARD, but it doesn't have to be.

I've been there, so l get it.

And yes, the thought of starting a business is intimidating, it's the kind of scary that keeps you awake because it means stepping out of your comfort zone.

But here's the thing - it isn't actually "hard".

What if you knew you’d be fully supported by comprehensive training, proven strategies, simple to follow systems, and mentorship from multiple 6, 7, and 8 figure earners.

The amount I make from 3-4 sales far exceeds what I was making in my corporate job AND the hours I work are a fraction of what I put in as a sales manager….and I get to work from anywhere in the world…sooooo I’d say that’s a pretty big upgrade from a drab office.

I’ll say it again…choosing to start your own business is choosing a different kind of 'hard'. It's the challenge that comes with a promise…

… the promise of freedom, fulfillment, and a life where you call the shots.

Life is going to be hard either way, but you get to choose your hard.

CHOOSE the hard that opens doors, that builds a financial legacy, that turns today's struggles into the foundation of tomorrow's celebrations.

CHOOSE the hard that leads to a life where paycheck to paycheck becomes savings and investments, where missing out becomes being there for every moment, where debt becomes financial freedom, where saying no becomes a HECK YES, and where staying put becomes traveling the world,

Choose the hard that transforms & liberates.

What hard do you choose?

Feel like you’re lacking confidence to become an entrepreneur??

If I’m being completely honest with you, the confidence you’re looking for isn’t going to be there BEFORE you make the decision to go for it…confidence grows over time AFTER you take action.

My advice….stop focusing on not having the confidence now…instead shift your focus to simply DOING IT now and learning as you go…one step at a time.

Messy action is exponentially better than doing nothing at all.

You know exactly what will happen if you do nothing…more of the same.

Think about it, how many times has confidence just magically appeared for you out of the blue one day & all of a suddenly you were “ready” to do the thing you were too scared to do?

Probably never right?

Confidence is built over time when you commit to showing up, learning and doing the thing consistently.

When I first started out as an online entrepreneur, I actually avoided telling anyone about my career shift for the first 6 months because I felt like an imposter…I had no idea wtf I was doing!

It was clear even then that I lacked confidence in myself, & if I’m being candid…even 7 years into being a full time entrepreneur every once in awhile that little doubtful voice will pops it’s head up and say “hey do you really know what you’re doing?” and for a minute I’ll forget who tf I am and get in my head about it.

But that’s part of being human!

I’ll leave you with this…confidence comes with time, patience, vulnerability & radical acceptance of being exactly where you are without judgement.

Let go, take the first step and then the next…Each step you take gets a little easier, until one day you’ll wake up and realize your anxiety & doubts have been replaced with the confidence you were seeking 💝

If I didn’t take a risk and start an online business…

I wouldn’t have left a career I didn’t love
I wouldn’t have become a digital nomad
I wouldn’t have traveled to 22 countries
I wouldn’t have rediscovered my purpose & passion
I wouldn’t be inspiring others with my story
I wouldn’t be able to choose how to spend my days
I wouldn’t have met some of my best friends
I wouldn’t have evolved into the woman I am today

I could have come up with a hundred reasons why it wasn’t a good idea, but instead I chose to BELIEVE I was meant for and that I WOULD create something special 💞

What reasons are stopping you from taking a chance on yourself?

We are officially over halfway through the year…are you where you want to be??

If you are…AMAZING, keep crushing it 🥳🥳


If not, it’s time to figure out the excuses/limiting beliefs holding you back and get rid of them!!

The number one thing that holds people back from success…is the fear of failure.


I’m going to let you in on a secret…there is NO SUCH THING as failure!!

Failure is simply a rung in the ladder to success.

Every single successful person out there didn’t get to where they are without “failing” along the way. The difference is they decided to learn from each “failure” and KEEP GOING.

So if you’re trying hard to avoid failure, you’re trying just as hard to avoid success.


I’m going to repeat that...If You’re Trying Hard To Avoid Failure, You’re Trying Just As Hard To Avoid Success.


The only true failure is never trying at all!!!


Now get out there and start failing faster 😉

Investing in yourself is the best decision you’ll ever make…you & only you have the ability to change the direction of your life at any point 🫶🏻

The people you surround yourself with have an incredible influence on the trajectory of your life!

One thing I used to struggle with was finding friends who were as obsessed with personal growth and living life to the fullest as I was.

Don’t get me wrong, I loved the people in my life, however they were happy in the little bubble they had created and didn’t crave growth & evolution.

Being in that energy for an extended period will eventually bring yours down to match.

It wasn’t until I started my business that I found MY peeps!!

Girlies who wake up every day with an excitement for life and are inspired to take risks to create a better life for themselves…to be better!

Girlies who see you & cheer you on as you level up together without the competitive bs I see so much between women.

Yesterday I got to spend the day with one of these baddies - Marissa! We spent our Monday at the beach taking pics and creating content for our lifestyle brands and having the best day ever!

You know the feeling of just good vibes and energy running through you after spending time with someone that gives you energy vs sucking it out of you…yeah that’s how it’s supposed to feel when you spend time with someone.

Come off such a great day made me sit and reflect about how grateful I am to have a business that allows me to meet people with big goals like me and know I don’t have to do it alone…and neither do you.

Anyone can do this business, but not everyone is brave enough to try!

Curious about what it is Marissa & I…and so many other women we mentor do online? Ready to level up your friend group?

Take a peek at my free video link in bio that breaks down the business model we use to run a high ticket affiliate marketing business online and sign up for my 7 day trial to see if it’s a good fit for you 🫶🏻

xo
Abby

If I asked you to picture life 1 year from today…what would it look like? What’s changed?

If you said “nothing”, would you be okay with life being exactly how it is today?

Working the same job, going through the same routine, living for the weekends, talking about the same thing to the same people day after day?

If you’re happy with life exactly how it is, amazing!

But if the thought of nothing changing terrifies you, I know exactly how you feel.

You want to continue to be able to experience life in new exciting ways, and you know staying where you are hurts more than the fear of changing...

But what are you doing to change?
How are you evolving as a person?
What steps are you taking today to make sure you’ll be a different person in a year?

I was a burnt out, unfulfilled sales manager for many years - I’m not ashamed to say I was STUCK in a rut.

I lost who I was & what was actually important in life.

My entire identity was wrapped up in a job I didn’t even love!

Something had to change, but what?? How??

I was at my breaking point when I came across a post talking about starting a high ticket affiliate marketing business.

Clueless about online business but I was willing to learn…especially if it was going to give me purpose again.

Fast forward 6 years…who would have ever thought starting my online business was the step to getting me unstuck, would reignite my passion for life and allow me to travel full time?!

If you’re thinking I could never do that…l get it!

I had zero experience working online, zilch! but I didn’t let that stop me...
I signed up for a training platform that taught me the skills with step-by step training videos, 1-on-1 coaching/mentorship, and a ton of community support.

If you are looking to learn a new high income skill to create extra income, looking for more fulfillment, or simply looking for a change in career...

Drop a ‘I’m ready’ in the comments or check out the free training video in my bio to see if this is the right path for you

P.S. If you take this step and everything works out exactly the way you want…how proud will you be one year from now?

💞💞Happy Valentine’s Day 💞💞

Always remember, you are worthy & deserving of love every day of the year!!

xx
Abby

Forget juggling tons of affiliations; find ONE partner that elevates your game.

Why settle for managing countless low-ticket items when a select few high-ticket offers with the SAME affiliate partner can make life more manageable and enjoyable?

Working smarter, not harder. With a smaller volume, you’re not just managing – you’re multiplying your income.

In two years with one incredible affiliate partnership I was able to generate over $200k in sales, leave the corporate world behind & go full time in my online business…now I get to travel the world while running my biz – all by focusing on quality over quantity.

Curious about how it works but not sure where to start?? I’ve got u 😉

Comment “affiliate partnerships” below or watch the info video in my bio for the deets.

xx
Abby

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
- Marianne Williamson