Hubert, Executive and Leadership Coach

New PADI Advance Scuba Divers. Well done and congratulations.

Tomorrow marks a poignant anniversary for me. It’s the day I first opened my eyes to this world and the day I laid my father to rest in Switzerland ten years ago. May 14, 2014, was the last day I saw him, the day he chose to journey beyond the rainbow. Four years later, on that same date, I had my Green Card interview—a lifeline that transformed my life. Just three days after his departure, on May 17, 2014, his body was discovered in his shop. That same date marked the expiration of my Green Card. These intertwined dates link our lives in a way that feels almost fated. He was a remarkable man, and every year on this day, I feel a deep connection with him.

Reflecting on the past decade, a revelation stirs within me: the significance of "I LOVE YOU." I realize how sparingly I've used these words. Why have I held back? I was not raised in a family that expressed love verbally. Interestingly, "I LOVE YOU" in English carries an emotional weight for me that its French counterpart, "Je t’aime," does not. For me, "Je t’aime" feels hollow, devoid of the deep connection I associate with its English equivalent. This kept me from saying it, something I regret. But here, in my new life in the US, I connect deeply with people I love.

In the next two days, I will retreat into the wilderness to commemorate this special day. No noise, no celebrations, just me and the Universe. During this time, I intend to plant the seeds of a new purpose.

Over the years, I've amassed a vast, unused inventory of "I LOVE YOU’s." I can either let them accumulate or put them to use. I've chosen the latter. My mission now is to sincerely express these words in every encounter. We have just one life, and when my time comes, I want to ensure my stockpile of love has been spread far and wide.

Tomorrow is the day I saw the light for the first time. Tomorrow is the day I begin to spread LOVE for the first time.

If you have a reserve of “I LOVE YOU” left unspoken, or if there’s someone you’ve been meaning to express it to, write it in the comments below. Include their first name to let the Universe know. This is the moment to make a difference in someone’s life and in your life.

I LOVE YOU!

Hubert

🌟 Last night was nothing short of magical as we bid farewell to one of the brightest stars I’ve ever had the privilege to know. Amera, with her boundless passion for teaching scuba diving, is not just a gem, but a beacon of light in this world. Her dedication, professionalism, and unparalleled work ethic leave us all in awe.

But here’s the kicker - she’s not just leaving for any ordinary journey. Amera is embarking on a path that will see her serving our country in the NAVY. What an absolute blessing for our nation to have someone of her caliber defending our shores.

Amera, as you set sail into this new chapter of your life, know that you carry with you the hopes and dreams of so many. You are destined for greatness, and I am beyond grateful to have crossed paths with you. Remember, no matter where the winds may take you, I’ll always be here cheering you on. Fair winds and following seas, my dear friend. 🌊⚓️✨

Morning hike at Torrey Pines Beach 🙏🏼

The best pickleball family 🙏🏼🙏🏼. So much fun.

DO PEOPLE WANT YOUR TIME OR YOUR PRESENCE? WHAT DO YOU THINK?

There is a misconception that in order to make people happy and connect, we need to “spend time” with them.

Let me ask you this: Have you ever had a conversation with someone or dinner where the person was not present? Either that person was looking above your shoulder, not listening to what you said, or just was looking at their phone or watch. Isn’t that annoying? Don’t you feel unheard, disrespected, not valued, and not appreciated?

People want you to be present, to be a good listener. People want to be seen, heard, understood, recognized. If you have a really busy schedule, make sure you plan in a way that you can be present in the conversation. People will be more satisfied with a shorter interaction with you if you bring intention if you are present and fully committed to them than having a longer interaction where you are unintentional, not focused, and distracted.

Next time you want to share a conversation with someone, make sure you take a few seconds and ask yourself? What is my intention? What is my level of presence (from 1 to 10)? What is the energy I am bringing in this interaction (from 1 to 10)? Then do the adequate correction.

It will be a game-changer in your relationship; watch how the person will feel and how you will feel at the end of the conversation?






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10 SUCCESS FACTORS FOR 2024

❓ What are the 10 success factors of the world’s most accomplished and influential people ❓

❓ Don’t you want to know them ❓

💥I do 💥

I decided to research what makes the world’s most accomplished and influential people so successful and fulfilled in all areas of their life. I identified ten success factors.

I created a FREE guide for you that will help you to be at the leading edge of how high performers and great leaders in this world get outstanding results.

I have summarized all the key “actionable” factors for each success factor that, once implemented, will bring you closer to where you want to be in life. Additionally, I have recommended five books along with each factor, to feed your mind and five questions to reflect on.

You can download your FREE GUIDE via the 👆 LINK IN MY BIO 👆

✨ Take the opportunity to step up your game ✨

HOW FULFILLED ARE YOU WITH YOUR LIFE…
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During the week, we cover the three pillars of what I think are the fundamental pillars to have a FULFILLING life. They are CLARITY, PURPOSE, and ALIGNMENT.
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✨ You need to have CLARITY about WHO you want to BECOME, WHAT you want to CONTRIBUTE in this world and WHERE you want to BE IN THE FUTURE.
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✨ You need to have a vision and PURPOSE(S) in life. Think bigger and higher. Think how you can GIVE, IMPACT, TRANSFORM, SERVE, INSPIRE OTHERS in their life.
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✨ When you have CLARITY and know your PURPOSE(S), then focus on the ALIGNMENT. Change your habits, acquire new skills or improve them. Look within you what habits you need to change. Look around you to get the support you need and make sure you will grow from this experience.
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✨ Now, focus every day on these three pillars: CLARITY, PURPOSE(S), and ALIGNMENT. Keep your eyes, your heart, and your thoughts on it. You will feel a shift within you.
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❓ Now, your turn: what will make YOUR LIFE more fulfilling, joyful and purposeful ❓
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👇 Share with us below 👇

HEALTHY LIFESTYLE
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A healthy lifestyle means taking care of the different aspects of your life. We can summarize them in 4 pillars: MENTAL (psychology), PHYSICAL (physiology), EMOTIONAL (affects), and SPIRITUAL (connection to higher purpose).
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The world’s most accomplished people understand that those four pillars must support each other in harmony.
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I don’t use the term balance on purpose because it is too static. Sometimes, we need to focus more on one area than the others.
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The key is to make sure that working on one pillar benefits the others.
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If you want to know the key factors the world’s most accomplished people consider to have a healthy lifestyle, download your FREE guide “The 10 success factors of the world’s most accomplished and influential people”.
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👆 LINK IN MY BIO. 👆
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💥You will love it! 💥

Being in ALIGNMENT, what does it mean?
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When you have CLARITY about what you want in life, when you have defined your PURPOSE(S), you need to bring in ALIGNMENT different aspects of your life.
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If you have a clear goal to run a marathon (CLARITY), that your PURPOSE is to inspire people, you need to make sure you will bring in ALIGNMENT different aspects of your life… Now, what are the three questions you should ask yourself to be more in ALIGNMENT?

1. What SKILL do I need to learn to get the result I want? What are the habits I need to change?.

2. Who can SUPPORT me. Who will cheer me on, people who are there when it gets tough? Who are the people that will make you accountable?

3. How can you align the following 6 areas? Here are 6 areas to consider: 1) health 2) love, 3) relationships/friends, 4) fulfilment, 5) connection (spirituality), 6) contribution.

❓ What skill do you need to learn or improve ❓ Who will be your accountability partner in this journey ❓
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Sunday, I will talk about FULFILLMENT… follow me if you want to know more...

Do you know your PURPOSE(S) in life?
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Have you ever thought about the big picture in your life, about the legacy, the impact you want to have in this world? Do you know your PURPOSE(S)?
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First, purpose is not singular. You can have different purposes for different roles in your life. You have a different purpose for your kids as a parent than when you are at work. So you can have multiple purposes for different roles/activities.
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Now if you are not clear about your purpose(s), here are three questions that can help you define them.
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What do you LOVE to do in life? Close your eyes and think about the three things you love the most.
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Then, how can you SHARE what you love with others and the world? Too many people are self-centered in their purpose. Think about having a positive impact on others.
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Write them down. Now set INTENTION before each role/activity. Stop for a minute and set the intention based on your purpose.
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❓ Tell me, what are the three things you LOVE the most ❓
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Friday, I will talk about ALIGNMENT… follow me...

❓ Are you struggling to have CLARITY in your life ❓
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feels stuck!
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What can we do to gain it back?
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Below are three questions that can help you to get back some clarity:

1. What do you want NOW? What is one thing you want in this present moment? Let be the starting point of bringing clarity for the day and maybe the week. Then, focus on taking one step toward it.

2. What is IMPORTANT for you in YOUR life? What is the most important thing in your life for the long term? Is it your family, your health, your business, your contribution to the world… What is it? When you have identified it, take one step, TODAY, one simple action toward it.

3. Do you feel that you're living in alignment with what you want now and what is important in your life? If no, identify the reason and address it?

Answering these three questions, what is your breakthrough? Share with us
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Tomorrow, I will talk about PURPOSE… follow me if you want to know more…