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Get Your Marriage On Hi! I'm Dan Purcell

đź’Ą I help couples discover more passion, intimacy, and fun in their marriages! Christ follower, marathon runner, & entrepreneur

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👩‍❤️‍👨 Married 22+ yrs, dad to 6 kids.

10/10/2026

Nobody expects you to know how to drive a car without learning.

Or cook a great meal without some practice.

So why do we expect married couples to automatically know how to have a fulfilling se/x life?

Being married doesn't magically give you the knowledge or skills to create great intimacy.

You have to learn. Practice. Communicate. Figure out what works for both of you.

And there's nothing embarrassing about that.

Great se/x isn't something you're just supposed to know how to do. It's something you learn to create together.

Follow Marriage & Intimacy Coach | Dan Purcell for practical ways to build a more passionate, connected marriage.

You can love God, value marriage, believe s*x is a beautiful gift... and still have a complicated relationship with your...
10/10/2026

You can love God, value marriage, believe s*x is a beautiful gift... and still have a complicated relationship with your se/xuality.

For some Christians, the hardest part of married intimacy isn't a lack of love or attraction.

It's trying to reconcile years of messages about se/x with the idea that it's now something you're supposed to enjoy.

But what if your faith isn't the obstacle?

What if some of the very beliefs you hold dear could help you build a more passionate, playful, and connected marriage?

You don't have to choose between your faith and a fulfilling se/x life. ❤️

🎧 We dig into this in our latest podcast episode, "Do Christians Really Have Bad Se/x Lives? The Data Might Surprise You." Listen wherever you get your podcasts, or watch the full conversation on our YouTube channel!

I'm curious: Did the messages you heard about se/x growing up help or hinder your experience of intimacy in marriage?

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Habits can create momentum that elevate your life. These 10 habits will create powerful, positive se/xual momentum in yo...
10/05/2026

Habits can create momentum that elevate your life. These 10 habits will create powerful, positive se/xual momentum in your marriage. Even if you just do one of these, it's going to improve your se/x life, but as you do multiples of these, they compound and they build on each other.

Who doesn't want an exponentially better se/x life and marriage?!

Comment HABITS to get the podcast episode in your inbox. And let me know in the comments which habit you want to implement first.

10/02/2026

If your definition of intimacy only includes one main event, every invitation becomes a yes-or-no question.

But what if you had more choices?

A long hug.
A deep conversation in bed.
A massage.
Making out.
Showering together.
Something playful.
Your version of the full steak dinner.

When more things “count,” there are more ways to connect—and intimacy doesn’t have to feel like such a high-stakes decision.

Try making your own intimacy menu together. The free Intimately Us app can help you discover and talk about more ways to connect.

Comment APP and I’ll send you the link.

10/02/2026

If you can’t immediately switch from the stress of the day to being fully present during s*x, you’re not broken.

You may simply need more time to transition.

S*x therapist Dr. Emily Jamea calls the beginning of that transition the “struggle phase.” Slowing down, relaxing your body, or creating a little space between the demands of the day and intimacy can help you move through it—instead of assuming you’re just not in the mood.

Follow Marriage & Intimacy Coach | Dan Purcell for more practical ways to build a stronger, more connected intimate marriage. And listen to my full conversation with Dr. Emily Jamea on the Get Your Marriage On Podcast.

09/30/2026

Flirting is supposed to be fun—not a contract.

But if every playful touch, suggestive text, or kiss seems to create an expectation for later, the spouse who isn’t sure what they’ll want tonight may stop initiating anything at all.

Not because they don’t love you.
Not necessarily because they lack desire.
But because flirting has started to feel like making a promise they might not be able to keep.

One of the best things you can do for your intimate connection is let affection be enjoyed for what it is—without keeping score or requiring it to lead somewhere else.

Has flirting ever started to feel like a promise in your marriage? You can answer with just “yes” or “no.”

Follow Marriage & Intimacy Coach | Dan Purcell for honest, practical conversations about intimacy in marriage.

And if you want more on this topic, check out episode #327 of the Get Your Marriage On podcast.

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