Sista Sutra

Is money and rich men all women want these days?

I was chatting in a group yesterday, and a man said that if men aren't rich and portray a diamond studded aesthetic, that they don't have a chance in the dating market today.

Is that true? Is that really how men feel?

More importantly, is that true? Is that all that women want?

Of course I don't believe it's true, but that seems to be the perception of men in the dating world.

To the women who require said attributes, do you really know why this is so important to you?

I think it is so important to understand where our wants and needs in a relationship come from. If you feel that diamonds are more important that the character of the man himself, why are women complaining about cheating, being disrespected, or being treated lousy?

Ahh so character does matter! So money isn't the most important thing!

Ladies, we must be honest with ourselves. You truly want a man who loves you, cherishes you, sees you, appreciates you, wants to please you. You want to know that he has your back, and will reciprocate your love. You want protection and security in the relationship.

In my opinion, needing a man with money is a sign that there is some insecurity about your ability to sustain yourself financially, and having a scarcity mindset, believing somewhere deep down, that without him, you will go without.

Wealth and financial abundance is something you are able to manifest yourself, or can manifest collectively with your partner. Money is energy, and sacrificing your dignity or your values to just have material things, will always come back to bite you.

Let's tell these single and eligible bachelors what we are really looking for, so they don't stop believing in the possibility of finding love, just like many women have.

There are so many men and women looking for love, but are looking over each other due to fear of lack, fear of betrayal, or fear of abandonment, because of their past, or what they are seeing in the media.

Don't let the media fool you, not all women want only rich men, and not all men want a BBL😂 Let's use our word to speak life into the things we truly desire, and let the universe do the rest!

Let me know your thoughts below!

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It's like all the good guys are taken..

All men cheat..

There's no good guys in my city..

I'd rather be single...

I'm working only career right now, no time for dating...
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YOUR PAST DOESN'T DICTATE YOUR FUTURE!

Are you tired of waiting for the love of your life to come along? Are you wondering when your soul mate will finally make their grand entrance into your world? I get it.. I get it.. Well, my friends, I have some good news for you… The key to finding and keeping true love lies within YOU!

You have the power to create the love and life you deserve!

Before you can receive the love of your life, it's crucial to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing. Imagine manifesting the most perfect relationship, with the most perfect person, and when they get to you, you have all this emotional baggage, limiting beliefs, and negative thought patterns, and they run for the hills!!

Yikes!!

We all carry scars from past relationships, heartbreaks, and disappointments. These wounds can become roadblocks, hindering our ability to fully give and receive love. So, grab a cup of tea, cozy up, and let's talk about transforming those wounds into wisdom.

Now picture it.. a woman who has weathered the storms of heartbreak and disappointment, emerging stronger and wiser. Yes, that woman is you! To find the love you deserve, you must first heal the wounds that have left their mark on your heart. It's not about erasing the past but about learning from it and deciding what you do and don’t want from the lemons you’ve learned.

I've been there, navigating the bumpy road of heartache. I've felt the sting of betrayal and the ache of unfulfilled dreams. But here's the secret – each scar tells a story of resilience. It's a testament to the fact that I survived, and so did you.

Take a moment to reflect on your past experiences. What patterns do you see? What lessons have you learned? Acknowledge the pain, but also acknowledge the strength it took to endure. Never feel uncomfortable about needing coaching or help to assist you in the healing process. There's no shame in reaching out; in fact, it's a courageous step towards a healthier, more love-ready version of yourself.

Once you've done the necessary work to heal your emotional wounds, that’s when you’ll be fully ready for your soul mate. Don’t get me wrong, you don’t have to be ALL THE WAY healed, but on the path to understanding and accountability. This involves more than just checking off boxes on a wish list; it's about being open and available to love. Love is not for the faint of heart, my friends. It requires vulnerability and a willingness to take the risk of getting hurt again. But remember, the rewards far outweigh the risks.

Being equally yoked is a crucial aspect of being ready for the love of your life. This means finding someone who shares your values, beliefs, and vision for the future. It's about a partnership where both individuals support and empower each other to reach their fullest potential. Take the time to get to know yourself deeply and understand what you truly desire in a partner. Don't settle for anything less than what you deserve!

Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, be your best version of yourself. This means taking care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Engage in activities that bring you joy, practice self-care, and surround yourself with positive influences. When you are happy and fulfilled, you become a magnet for love. So, shine your light and be the best version of you.

In conclusion, finding the love of your life requires inner work and a readiness to receive love. Take the time to heal your emotional wounds, be open and available, seek someone who is equally yoked, and be the best version of yourself. Remember, true love starts from within. So, my friends, get ready, because the love of your life is waiting to be in alignment with you. Open your heart, embrace the journey, and watch as love transforms your life. As Maya Angelou once said, "Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination full of hope."

So here's to you, your journey, and the love that's not just waiting for you – it's already within you. Embrace it, nurture it, and watch as it blossoms into the beautiful love story you deserve. A Big Hell Yes to the amazing journey ahead! 💖✨

It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that stuff will make us happy. But the reality is, it's just temporary 😱

Yesterday, I shared why investing in elevating your mind, body, soul, relationships, and knowledge is a more significant investment than acquiring things that merely clutter our homes.

As someone who is finally HAPPILY married and no longer suffering from depression and dissatisfaction with my life, I can say that the money I’ve spent on learning to manage my mind, communication, self love, and healing, beats any material possession I’ve ever bought. I know the allure of Black Friday sales and the temptation to indulge in items that, in the grand scheme, offer only temporary satisfaction.

Yet, there's something that lasts beyond the holiday season. That's the power of investing in your happiness, your confidence, your inner peace, and yes.. your love story. It's about cultivating the skills and knowledge that can transform your relationships, not only with others, but with yourself, and also bring lasting joy.

So this Black Friday, I encourage you to consider investing in your love story. The story where you learn to fall in love with yourself, to invite others to love you the same way. Think about taking a coaching program or a course that will teach you the skills to create a peaceful and happy life and romance you've always dreamed of.

I promise you, it will be the best investment you ever make 💖

And to help you embark on this journey, I'm offering a Black Friday Special!

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How I Met My Husband in 90 Days After a Life Of Dating Lames😂

Thinking about this time in my life makes me smile every time!!.

I LOVE remembering how fast it took me to transform my whole life in such a short period of time, once I implemented my framework on my own life!!

In the short timespan of using the framework in my program the LoveAlchemyBlueprint, I got a new job, met the love of my life, got engaged, married, and pregnant.. All in 9 months from start to finish!!

But… it didn’t start that way… When I first realized that I needed to change, I was fresh out of a lame relationship, lost my apartment (because of said lame ex😆), lost my job, and was totally lost! I felt miserable, lonely, embarrassed and doubted whether I would be able to have the family I wanted at all.

Because I couldn’t understand what part I was playing in my situation, it was affecting, relationships with men and the way I felt about myself.

I had even tried to making it work with one of the lames, letting him move in my apartment for over a year, thinking it would make him value our relationship, but it didn’t work. (PS. It didn’t work because I didn’t understand that my unhealed trauma was the reason I attracted him, and if I healed that trauma and loved myself, I would have never been with him in the first place!)

So how did I go from constantly attracting these lames to attracting my husband of 14 years?

Let’s talk about it!

Step 1: Acknowledge that YOU are the common denominator of all of your relationships, and YOU are the one attracting these partners to you, and decide to dig deep to find out why.

Step 2: Start reevaluating the people, places, and things that you have in your life and make the changes needed to be in alignment with what you want.

Step 3: Eliminate limiting beliefs and intrusive thoughts, to reprogram your mindset and emotions, allowing you to attract your ideal partner.

For a girl like me, who didn’t learn how to manage my mind or my life, this changed EVERYTHING!

Now I have the life I used to dream about! I have my husband, our 3 children, a home that we own, and a little dog named Sprinkle! I finally quit working in corporate america (which I hated), and am pursuing my dreams of being a business owner (x 3), and helping other women achieve the same transformation that I did!

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Ready to stop trying to live up to the unattainable standard of a woman, that society says you have to be in order to find love or keep it?

In reality, being yourself and being truly happy from the inside out, will attract a partner who loves you for you and accepts you for who you are.

You don't have to try and be something you're not to get a man or keep the one you have. Being the most genuine authentic version of yourself is the best way to find the most compatible partner.

No matter your weight, career, humor, likes, dislikes, hobbies..
There is someone out there for you and everyone!

It's better to attract someone who likes you for who you are, than to attract someone that fell in love with the vision of who you pretended to be, and then feel hoodwinked when your mask falls off when you cant keep it up. Then you spend all this time trying to get them to love the real you or trying to find ways to love them.

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