Reshape the Soul with Nneka

03/20/2023

Hey Sis, still creating those safety nets that keep you stuck? No worries.

Join me LIVE to learn how these safety nets really show up as self-sabotage that keeps you from

🤑 getting that promotion

👜 starting that business or ministry

🤸🏾‍♀️ finding joy and purpose

😘 even saying yes to the date ❤️

You can break free from it, regain your confidence and start to trust yourself again.

I'm calling you out because it takes one to know one. I've been there.

And there's NO SHAME in it!

You were protecting yourself the best way you knew how. But now your feeling the pressure and agitation from being in a stuck place.

That's good news! It's just letting you know that it's time. ⏲️

It's time to shift. It's time to choose to bet on yourself.

Join me LIVE Tuesday night at 7pm pdt.

SAVE this and put it in your 📅

02/22/2023

Hey ya'll! I'm about to go LIVE in 5 minutes talking about how we can move forward from a painful past. A lot of times we are looking for a one-and-done but that's not how it works. Come find out how we can move forward and take some valuable stuff with us in the process.

Join me in Reshape the Soul Community with Nneka

01/22/2023

Sharing some encouragement today.

You may be on the mountaintop. Or you may have just received some unnerving news.

Today you may feel like celebrating. Or today may feel like a struggle.

But we thank God that it doesn't change the facts!

God is within her. She will not fall!
Psalm 46:5

Other versions say she will not fail. And if you read deeper into the rest of that chapter you will find that God isn't talking about an individual woman. He's talking about the lsraelites and the city of Jerusalem.

But this is still encouraging news for us because if you know a little bit about Israel's history then you know how faithfully God walked with them. You know how much He watched over them and cared for them and never left them, even when they went their own way, complained, rebelled, let fear control their beliefs, and failed to see themselves the way God saw them.

This is encouraging news to us because it is an example of God's relentless commitment to our success. Success His way that produces His results. The best results that not only feeds our souls, but the souls of others.

So be encouraged today. God is with you. He's right there with you. And He will not let you fall!

Looking for a place to get faith based encouragement? Join my Reshape the Soul Community in Facebook. The link is in my bio. See you soon!

01/16/2023

Had a great time celebrating the life, legacy, dream, and body of work of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. It felt good to be out with the community and to watch the next generation of leaders being formed.

There is much work to be done and we each have a significant part to play. Let's do our part. ✊🏾🤜🏾🤛🏾

12/29/2022

Have you set your vision for 2023? And what about the plan?

Let's take vision to the next level by not just seeing it but by adding a strategic plan for your personal success.

How are we going to do that?

✨️We've got to talk about what's clouding the vision. Mindset work is a must when your trying to see the vision clearly.

✨️We'll "write" the vision by creating boards that help you see yourself in that place. You will struggle to succeed in any area where you don't see yourself.

✨️We'll use a framework to develop the strategy that you'll need to execute on the vision that is given to You.

In 2023 you still have gifts to give and dreams to fulfill.

You're designed to offer hope, and a solution for the problems we face today. But sometimes life makes it look impossible to do.

I understand this all too well.

When my 2nd marriage ended and my life came crumbling down I couldn't believe that I had anything to offer the world. No gifts, talent, or purpose. Just depression, embarrassment and a brokenhearted. But that was a lie.

Some of the deepest wells of my pain revealed my deepest wells of passion and purpose. To help other women find themselves and believe again.

Join me LIVE in the Reshape the Soul Facebook Community for 3 nights to dive into finding your Belief, Vision, and Strategy for 2023. Link in bio.

12/28/2022

I'm super excited to help passionate, purpose-driven women dive into the Vision & Strategy Webinar! Let's take vision to the next level by adding the strategic plan for your personal success.

How do we do that?

✨️We've got to talk about what's clouding the vision. Mindset work is a must when your trying to see the vision clearly.

✨️We'll "write" the vision by creating boards that help you see yourself in that place. You will struggle to succeed in any area where you don't see yourself.

✨️We'll use a framework to develop the strategy that you'll need to execute on the vision that is given to You.

In 2023 you still have gifts to give and dreams to fulfill.

Part of the reason you can't shake your dream, no matter the challenge, is because you're designed to answer a problem. You're designed to offer a solution and hope for a problem that we face today. We all are. But sometimes life makes it look impossible to do.

That's where this 3-day Webinar comes in. It's easy to walk away from something you "do". But it's part of a purpose given to You because of who you are... That's different.

Join me LIVE in the Reshape the Soul Community with Nneka for this 3 night dive into vision & strategy for 2023.

12/15/2022

This is so heartbreaking. You absolutely can't always know what someone is dealing with by looking at them. He looked so happy and fulfilled. It's heartbreaking that he felt this was his only option. 💔 😔
Prayers for his wife and children.

We have been taking some hard hits over the last few years. If you feel yourself slipping into pretending to be ok when you're really not, just know that you're not alone in the struggle. Please talk to someone. And be open to who that someone is. It may not be who you wish for it to be at the time. The important thing is getting freedom from the dark cloud you're under.

Please reach out to this lifeline by texting 988. You do have options. Please. 🙏🏽❤️

Boss and his wife, fellow dancer Allison Holker, celebrated their ninth wedding anniversary earlier this week.

12/07/2022

Are you that person that everybody leans on to be the problem solver even when you have your own problems to solve?

Do you get it done because "that's just what you do" but you're wondering how you'll be able to fulfill your true purpose AND be strong for everyone else?

Then you don't want to miss this episode with TeNita Ballard!

We talk about her wake up call with being the strong friend and how that propelled her into purpose. We also uncover some of the tools she's had to use to climb over the obstacles she's faced along the way.

Click the link in my bio to watch the latest episode with TeNita on YouTube! 👩🏽‍💻

11/30/2022

If you've ever listened to the Embrace Your Power podcast then you might know why .live is so .

In this 2nd installment we dig into her story and the strategies she's used to embrace her true identity, overcome self-doubt, and show up to serve countless individuals in their own purpose journeys.

Available right now on YouTube! Click the link in my bio to get the goods. 😉

11/26/2022

Having trouble pursuing what you believe you've been gifted to do?

Or maybe you're not even sure what that thing is.

Then you'll want to listen to this conversation I had with . We dive into some real-life strategies for pursuing something greater when life keeps "lifing".

There's no guarantees that everything will be smooth sailing when you answer the call.

As a matter of fact, the struggle can get real real sometimes. But I've learned that fulfilling my purpose on this planet also involves me growing through the difficult times and still being committed to showing up. I'm still learning. And I'm grateful for the wisdom that's available for me to grasp.

If you're struggling to keep going on your pursuit of the purpose you've been gifted to fulfill, catch this valuable conversation on my new YouTube channel, Reshape the Soul with Nneka! 🙌🏽 Link in bio

11/21/2022

It wasn't your fault. But you do have a responsibility.

***Possible Trigger Warning***

There were several pivotal moments in my life that shaped me starting at an early age.

I was abused by my babysitter when I was very young, maybe 5, maybe younger. I honestly don't remember how old I was when it started or how long it lasted because I've blocked most of it out. Thankfully, I only have 3 memories of it. But they are burned within. And though they don't carry the same sting, I have not forgotten.

She was trusted. Not just by me, but by my parents. This was the place were I learned not to trust even someone who stood in the position to care for me.

This is also the place that I learned to be silenced. Part of the abuse involved things being stuffed into my mouth, either to control me or silence me during a beating. I didn't realize the symbolism and magnitude of this until I was in therapy. But looking back on how it all began, I realized something.

Nothing that was taken by the abuser, like my voice, was going to be retrieved from her. I had to do the work of getting it back myself and I couldn't get it from her.

That is when I realized it was going to take some work. It was going to be a process. And it was going take some time.

This is a tough subject. I know. And it's one that many may not want to address. But not addressing it doesn't mean it's not there. In fact, it could be the reason you feel stuck, create self sabotaging patterns, and keep operating out of a general sense of fear. Even the super hidden kind.

It takes courage to face. But it will be worth it.

It's going to be worth it because your dream, ability, or creative genius is being held hostage by an unhealed heart. I knew I had to acknowledge that for myself, and that was the beginning for me.

So I got myself into therapy to walk through the hard parts. I opened myself to revealing the wound to let the air in and the healing begin.

Then, this is what I did.

11/15/2022