Food For Thought

some food for thought...

A relationship with a hardworking man isn’t for everyone which is why some women settle for men with no ambition.

Loving a hardworking man means accepting that he won’t always be available. There may be days when he’s too exhausted to give you undivided attention, but that doesn’t mean he’s not invested. He wakes up early, pushes through fatigue, and sacrifices comfort to build a stable future for you.

Understand that some nights, he’ll barely have energy for a kiss before collapsing into bed, only to do it all again at dawn. Don’t take him for granted. His callused hands and grease-stained clothes aren’t flaws, they’re proof of his dedication.

This man loves deeper than most ever will. So here’s to the hardworking men married to the women they adore who grind daily to turn dreams into reality for their families. Cherish him. Few can match his loyalty or drive.

Food for thought,
Why do we lament about the mountain? We often forget that after we have climbed the mountain before us, we are granted the ability to see the path most clearly. Given this, should we not give thanks for the mountains we have climbed, and have yet to climb?
Why do we see our scars as ugly things that make us undesirable? In most cases, our scars are only seen by us, and those scars that can be seen tell a story of the battles we have fought, and the deamons we have defeated that tried their best to destroy us.
It is often the broken road, the road less traveled by, that we gain the most. When we find ourselves tired and down, let us give thanks for the breath in our lungs, the strong beat of our hearts, the strength we have to keep climbing, and at the top of the mountain may we stop and wonder at the world below and the path we can see laid out for as far as we can see.

It's 2025! Welcome all to the New Year. This year will be much different from last year. This year, we have learned from the failures of last year, and we are celebrating those failures for the lessons they brought to us. We do not fear failure, because we know and trust that failure brings knowledge, and knowledge properly applied turns into wisdom.

This year, we will witness the alignment of all of the planets. It is suspected that we will see some interesting things around this planetary alignment. Both leading up to it, as well as following it.

Whatever 2025 brings to us, let us strive to maintain an attitude of gratitude for what we are given; and let us also not forget that sometimes the answer to our plea or prayer is "no". Not because we do not deserve it, but because there is better in store for us a bit further down the road. So, when the answer to our plea or prayer is "no", let's not shake our fist at or curse the fates, but look forward to what is yet to come and embrace the wisdom in awaiting the better.

May we all thrive in 2025.

Happy Thanksgiving to one and all.

It is always a good thing to be thankful for the blessings we receive, but too often we get to busy and forget that it is one of the key aspects to what keeps the good things coming.

Think back on a time when someone was simply taking what we offer, but not showing thanks for the mere fact we have offered it. It doesn't feel good, and it blocks our giving flow. This is not a good or bad thing; it is simply something that happens over time. It is the natural order of things.

The universe acts in much the same way, but for a different reason. If we stop giving thanks and acknowledging the gifts and blessings, we start to feed into the illusion of scarcity. As many have come to learn, thoughts are things and the universe does not know good or bad, it simply knows that what we focus our thoughts on it must manifest. Which is why we must be careful without thoughts.

Today, in case we have not be as diligent as we may have been had we not been so busy, let us stop and give thanks for all the blessings given, for all the strides made, and all the goals reached. It has been a great year.

Let's also give thanks for the many times we may have missed the mark, missed the goal, or (that dreaded word) failed. Why? Because in truth, there is no failure, And each time we missed the mark or missed the goal, we learned. Each "bad" thing taught us what not to do, what not to compromise on and where we may have forgotten our own value, and that is a gift to be thankful for too.

Sometimes we get caught up in the day to day, the struggles that life brings by its very nature. Relationships can be hard, especially when we fail of forget to do the work. Here are some simple rules to put in place to keep our loving relationships strong.

1. Never go to bed mad, or sleep on the couch. We never know when our last moment is, so covet each moment we have.

2. Have at least one date night per week. Its just good for our mental and spiritual health.

3. Don't be susceptible. This pollutes a relationship and breaks good communication, So just tell the truth up front, no matter how much it hurts.

4. Never yell at each other. Discuss, even disagree with passionate belief. But never yell at each other, or call each other names.

5. If one person in a relationship is going through a harder faze or showing weakness, the other one steps up and carries the other.

6. Always agree in public, even if we disagree in private. Destructive people will feed themselves by our differences and try to drive us apart.

7. Always say "I love you", and more than that, show it. Because if all that was wanted was a roommate, an ad can be posted for one.

8. Never make each other pay for the sins of the past. We each must succeed or fail on our own merits,

Food for thought...

We all hear the little voice in the back of our minds. Sometimes it tells us we are awesome, great, wonderful, and special. Most of the time, however, it whispers something more negative. This is why it is often wiser to not listen to the voice in our heads, but listen instead to the soft whisper of the voice in our heart.
Let us take a moment and consider, If we were to take a moment and listen, what would be the whispering voice coming to us through the walls of your own heart?
Sometimes we look back on the past and wonder what could have been, but we seldom look back on the lessons from our past and think “what did I miss in the lesson?” Then we wonder why the lesson keeps returning to us. The fact is, there is something we left behind worth going back for. It is not easy, or painless, going back and sifting through the ashes of the past, seeing rubble where a mansion sat before. Or what we thought was a mansion. In those ashes, however, are the lessons we may not have learned, and which wait there for us to find them, claim them, and grow from having found them. It is in this journey that we can stop the recurring cycle and move from the past to the challenges and rewards of the future.

Sometimes this is exactly what is needed, and yes it will hurt, feel like you are giving up, and sometimes even feel like you failed in some way.
It is wise to remind ourselves that it is none of these things. It is simply recognizing when the relationship has come to its necessary end. We tend to want to hold on to everyone, without much consideration to how we are being of service to the relationship, or how it is being of service to us.
It is also wise to remember that every person that comes into our lives are in one of three categories. They come into our lives for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Those who come into our lives for a lifetime are rare, and they will walk our path with us, no matter the calm or the storm.
Those who come into our lives for a season, like flowers, will grow, flower and seed as we water them; and we will in turn grow more along our own path. Those who come for a reason are like the humming bird, stopping by for a drink, and then flitting off.
Instead of feeling hurt, or feeling like we are giving up, or feeling like we have failed in some way, lets replace these feelings with gratitude. Gratitude for the time shared, gratitude for having mutually given and grown, and gratitude for the lessons learned.

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