11/28/2025
The Seven Goodbyes of a Nurse
No one says goodbye more softly than a nurse.
The first goodbye
to the patient who leaves whole,
hope shining brighter than the dawn.
A smile exchanged,
a promise kept,
a life gently released back to the world.
The second goodbye
to the patient who slips away quietly,
when words run out and hands tremble.
A farewell spoken in silent prayers,
in a tear no one sees,
in a heart breaking just beneath the scrubs.
The third goodbye
to the family who must leave empty-handed,
to the hugs that carry grief,
to the hands held through sleepless nights,
to the stories told in whispered comfort,
knowing healing doesn’t always mean survival.
The fourth goodbye
to the colleague who walks away,
burnt out, broken, or moving on.
A nod of understanding,
a wish for peace,
knowing this fight has taken its toll.
The fifth goodbye
to the version of yourself
you leave behind with every shift.
The laughter lost, the tears swallowed,
the parts of you given away
that no chart will ever record.
The sixth goodbye
to the long hours that steal your time,
to missed dinners and forgotten birthdays,
to the life lived between breaks and alarms,
to the self-care you postpone again and again.
And the seventh goodbye
to the call of nursing itself,
when the world seems too heavy to hold,
but the heart still whispers
stay.
Because no one says goodbye more softly than a nurse,
and no one holds on more fiercely.