11/03/2017
Small Business Survival: When Friends ask for "Complimentary" Services
You see nothing wrong with approaching your friend and saying, "I know you specialize in __________________. Would you be willing to _______________?" I know I/we can't afford you, but would you be willing to reduce your fee for me/us/our company/organization to __________________.
Friends of entrepreneurs frequently ask for "complimentary," or free services. The good thing is, we want to support our friends and are usually more than willing to oblige the requests. It’s important however, to mindful that when asking a friend to provide complimentary or reduced-fee services, there's a responsibility that goes along with the request. Here are some things to consider:
Just like you, entrepreneurial friends have to pay their bills. So ask yourself this – "Realistically, would I be able and willing to work that amount of time - for free?" If I can’t, why would they be able to?
This is a big one - If you have never supported their business - perhaps you can't afford them or their particular service is of little value to you (ahem, I bet professional development $$$ at your company could be spent at their business) then consider not asking them more than once for a complimentary service.
Finally, the next time you think about asking a friend to work for free, do this exercise. Go to your purse or wallet and take out that amount of money and think about a good friend that you would just “give” it to. Next, ask yourself how many times you would be willing to just “give” your friend your money. Yes, it is something to consider isn’t it?
Entrepreneurs know their friends truly mean no harm when they ask for complimentary services. Just a little consideration is all that's needed for your friend and their livelihood. Just a little consideration.