10/02/2026
Yesterday, I hosted an event in honor of International Podcast Day.
I invited a lot of podcasters — many of whom I had never met — because I wanted to create an opportunity for us to connect, collaborate, learn from each other, and build relationships. Many of them had also been guests on my podcast.
It was supposed to be quick, virtual speed networking.
I used Zoom.
And let me tell you why that matters.
Years ago, I used Zoom and had a terrible experience. I lost a lot of content that I had saved, and even though I was paying for a plan, there was no apology, no real resolution, nothing.
So I stopped using it.
I moved to Google Meet and eventually StreamYard, and those systems have worked for me.
But yesterday, I went against my better judgment.
Why?
Because everybody has Zoom.
I thought it would make things easier for everyone else.
Nine people registered.
We got started.
About 20 minutes in, the screen went blank.
I couldn't get back on.
I tried.
I was flustered.
And then I had to stop.
Breathe.
And remind myself:
There is nothing I can do about this right now.
So I sent an email apologizing and letting everyone know that I would reschedule.
And then I went for a long walk around town with Pop.
That was it.
Now, could I beat myself up about it?
Absolutely.
Could I make it mean that I failed?
I could.
But that's not the lesson.
THE LESSON
Sometimes the lesson isn't about what went wrong.
Sometimes the lesson is about trusting what you already know.
I knew what worked for me.
I abandoned it trying to accommodate everyone else.
And I was reminded that your systems need to work for YOUR business, too.
And there's another lesson:
Emotional regulation is part of entrepreneurship.
Things are going to break.
Plans are going to change.
Technology is going to fail.
People are going to disappoint you.
And sometimes, despite doing everything right, things simply won't go the way you planned.
The question is not, “Did something go wrong?”
The question is:
What do you do next?
I chose to breathe, communicate, regroup, and keep moving.
That's the lesson.
If you're struggling with emotional regulation in your business, click the link in my About section. Let's work on your next move.