08/29/2022
Two points of interest for today.
1. It's good to let your student make goals for themselves.
Today, I asked N what he would like to see more of in A New Way Academy. What would he LOVE to do if he could do anything?... and we would work together to make it happen. :)
N decided he would like to work up to going shopping in our local drug store, which, considering his anxiety and sensory challenges, is a worthy goal.
2. Be relentless in communication, but don't pry.
Lately we have been trying to understand N better. Why he insists on the things he insists upon. So we have been taking some sessions for "social-emotional care" and practicing communication in self advocacy. When a child can express why a light must be turned OFF... or a cup must be placed HERE, then others can work towards understanding the child's logical pathways AND it opens the door to having a conversation with the child about that need. Sometimes, though, N feels timid about expressing why. I try gauge his feelings and whether he truly does not want to talk about it (teens need respect in this area), or if he is just having a hard time finding words for why. If he doesn't want to talk about it, I require him to communicate that.... saying NO is SUCH an important skill that is rarely valued!
Finally, on the menu for tomorrow, N wants me to "tell [him] about new ways to make states of matter."
After finding the definition of chemistry and reading it to him, he agreed that that is what he meant. Off we go!