07/11/2020
Speaking from personal & professional experience... mind yours!! It’s better that way.
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Everything I said I would never do I found myself doing and then some, that’s why I became a coach. So I could help other marriages avoid some of the things that happened in mine.
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I talk to so many people in what (from the outside) look like happy relationships but are anything but inside.
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I talk to men who are bored and women who are bored but they won’t share that boredom with their partner 🤷🏾♀️ Instead of trying to fix the problem from within the solution is commonly to fix it on their own by staying quiet and peaceful at home but getting your needs met somewhere else.
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The problem is, is that s**t rarely works out in the long run... and then you’re left with what? 🤷🏾♀️
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I know it seems hard to have those talks but its so much easier than trying to clean up the mess of . Check in with your partner today and make sure y’all are good in all areas! If you feel like it’s a talk that won’t go well on your own bring in a professional like me that can help advocate your concerns and needs.
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I wish wholehearted happy relationships for each of you!! Do the work and talk 🙏🏾💕