Pam Stoddard Life Coach

07/11/2024

Grief is NOT just sadness.
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01/14/2024

Today is 5 years since I heard your voice and felt your hug. I remember that hug that morning and I cherish it. I remember you laughing at me when I got rake stuck in tree. I remember being mad at you at some point. I don’t remember why, but I remember you saying let’s finish up and go sit by lake together. I see you in the ground, I remember every second of trying to save you and begging you and God to not let this be happening.

It’s a battle to not let those last few be what I remember most (some days it’s hard). I call Jan 6-14 hell week as I feel the hard of all this week offered. But, I choose and I make the decision to cherish and remember that hug, that love, your laugh and your “more”. It’s my choice to choose what I want to remember most, it’s my job to feel sad and be ok with that.

I miss you every second and I remember these pics and I can chose to let them be painful or beautiful memories. I choose the beautiful.

I write this for my fellow widows. This is all truth. I hurt a lot but we lived a lifetime together I will not let my sorrow wash away the beauty. You can too

11/23/2023

Happy thanksgiving to all!

11/16/2023

I’m Curious. What do you all think of this saying? Feel it’s true in its basic statement form? No politics or crude just the comment itself? Weigh in in the comments.

10/27/2023

10 spots. Better grab them now.

10/06/2023

It’s fall! It’s a beautiful time of year!
(Winters coming) so time to get out go to parks, take walks, sit by lake, go to festivals, craft shows etc. Just
get out and go!

Don’t let your brain convince you not too. You’ll be alone or lonely…you are now. It’s not as much fun without him…your not having any fun now. I might run into someone … so? Ask yourself so what? You aren’t avoiding forever, preplan a response (gosh I love this weather, don’t you? How are kids?) turn question to them.. people live to talk about themselves.

Enjoy!!! Whose doing what THIS weekend? Share below. Gives your ideas, someone needs to hear them.

06/05/2023

It’s your turn!

What podcast or coaching topics do you want to know more about? ⬇️comment below ⬇️

You tell me what you struggle with most and I’ll talk about it I’m some way!

05/21/2023

How are you telling your grief story? Are you the victim or heroine? It matters.

Check out this old podcast if want to know more.

https://anchor.fm/pam-stoddard/episodes/Whats-you-Grief-Story-e1lvfas

04/09/2023

04/09/2023

So much truth

03/20/2023

Wow! Think about that for a moment.

12/31/2022

This feels so true and excites me -you?