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The 4 S'sCould leadership benefit from a healthy attachment theory? YES!https://wix.to/aHYa5M1
08/19/2026

The 4 S's

Could leadership benefit from a healthy attachment theory? YES!
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I had a powerful conversation this week with a friend where we talked about the 4 S's of healthy attachment - Safe, Seen, Soothed, & Secure. This is based on work from Dr. Daniel Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson in their book, The Power of Showing Up. These four elements represent what children (and adu...

The Ripple EffectWhat kind of waves are you making?!https://wix.to/SOyAywM
08/14/2026

The Ripple Effect

What kind of waves are you making?!
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I was chatting with a friend this week and we were talking about the Ripple Effect of our choices and attitudes. Then, I had a conversation with another friend, and the same idea came up! So, of course, that's what I need to share with you this week!Here's the basic idea - our actions and attitudes....

Accountability & ResponsibilityWhat if we approached these ideas as critical partners? https://wix.to/O6hBRvL
08/06/2026

Accountability & Responsibility

What if we approached these ideas as critical partners?
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I had a powerful conversation this week with some leaders around the ideas of Accountability & Responsibility. In our conversation we discussed that Accountability is an external factor that comes to us from the outside - some external entity (friend, supervisor, boss, board, etc.) attempts to hold....

Mine vs Not MineCould a simple, 2-column chart bring that much clarity?https://wix.to/Xxn3pJM
07/30/2026

Mine vs Not Mine

Could a simple, 2-column chart bring that much clarity?
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I've been thinking and talking with a number of people in the last week about a simple exercise that at various times of my life I have found very helpful. Maybe it will be helpful for you too!Start by grabbing a blank sheet of paper and making two columns on it. Label one side "Mine" and the other....

Other-CenterednessWhat's the impact of looking up and reaching out? BIG!https://wix.to/T8L9QrF
07/24/2026

Other-Centeredness

What's the impact of looking up and reaching out? BIG!
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I am thankful for an opportunity to take some time away from some of my regular routines and experience extended time with family and friends over the previous two weeks. I am also grateful for the privilege of popping back into your inbox with a weekly message of challenge and encouragement.I was r...

WeatherHow important is it for leaders to be honest about the weather? https://wix.to/hhlFsqu
07/02/2026

Weather

How important is it for leaders to be honest about the weather? https://wix.to/hhlFsqu

A friend of mine was telling me the story of an organization that asked its leaders to help "Set the Weather" for their teams. What they were trying to communicate was the fact that the leader needed to help their teams approach change and difficult news with a positive attitude. What everyone in th...

OpenHow critical is being Open to forward progress?https://wix.to/k3xKtE4
06/25/2026

Open

How critical is being Open to forward progress?
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I was sitting with a group of community leaders talking about some best practices for leading well and helping move groups and teams forward in healthy and effective ways. One of the topics that came up in the room was the importance of being Open. As we explored that dynamic, there were three criti...

Listen AND HearIs there a difference?https://wix.to/UQWFnrS
06/18/2026

Listen AND Hear

Is there a difference?
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I was recently spending time with a group of leaders, and the organizer of the group posed a question they wanted everyone in the group to reflect on and answer. It was a great question, and everyone had very thoughtful answers that made a significant impact on the team. During the sharing process,....

SupportWho's helping to hold you up?https://wix.to/YxICuC1
06/12/2026

Support

Who's helping to hold you up?
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There is a story in the Hebrew tradition that has two tribes fighting against each other. In the scene, the Hebrew people are being led by Moses who is standing on a hill overlooking the battlefield. As long as Moses is holding up his staff over his head the Hebrews have the advantage in the battle....

StoryHow much of an impact does a Story really make? https://wix.to/0JS5vJ7
06/06/2026

Story

How much of an impact does a Story really make?
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Sitting with me around the large rectangle of tables (with a few extras added on zoom) was a collaborative team of about 25 people. This group oversaw one section of work under a very large organization. Spread out around the room was "the leader," the second in charge, 4 team leaders, and all of th...

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