02/15/2024
Every year, I've chosen one word to focus on throughout the year. It is like a New Year's resolution, but simpler and easier to remember. This practice has consistently guided me through difficult moments and aided me in making the right decisions.
In the past, my chosen words were "courage," "positivity," "grace," and "faith." This year, my word is in Vietnamese, "Xa~," which translates to "Let go." In Vietnamese language, the two words "Hy? Xa~" usually go together, but I never gave much thought to it. However, during a recent meditation retreat, I realized its true meaning. “Hy?” means Joy, and “Xa~” means “Let go.” In order to experience joy, we must let go of the things that no longer serve us.
When we lose our job, it is normal to experience a variety of negative emotions such as anger, sadness, fear, and disappointment. These emotions are a natural response to the loss we have experienced, but holding onto them can prevent us from finding joy and fulfillment. When our mind is preoccupied with anger, hatred, and regret, it no longer has the capacity to think creatively, feel hopeful and make space for new positive experiences.
Losing a job can be a challenging and emotionally draining experience, but it can also be an opportunity for personal growth and transformation. By letting go of negativity, practicing self-care, seeking support, and embracing new opportunities, we can find joy and fulfillment in our lives once again.
Life is short, and it's up to us to make the most of it. Let's not waste any more time thinking about the past that is no longer within our control. As Kobe Bryant said, "The Biggest Mistake We Make In Our Life Is Thinking We Have Time." Let's let go of negativity, embrace the possibilities, and create a future filled with happiness and fulfillment.
"Most of us walk without chains, yet we aren't free. We're tethered to regret and sorrow from the past. We return to the past and continue to suffer. The past is a prison. But now you have the key to unlock the door and arrive in the present moment. You breathe in, you bring your mind home to your body, you make a step, and you arrive in the here and the now." - Thich Nhat Hanh, "How to Walk".
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With 200,000+ tech layoffs in 2023 and early 2024, it is easy to get discouraged. For 30 days, I will share a tip to encourage you and give you some suggestions on how to stay motivated during your job search.
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