09/03/2026
One of the unexpected problems with homeschooling is that there are so many good things to do.
Field trips. Classes. Co-ops. Park days. Library programs. Meetups. Extracurriculars. Someone is always finding something interesting happening on a Tuesday morning. π
Especially when my kids were younger, I was tempted to evaluate every opportunity with one question: Would this be good for them?
The problem is that the answer is almost always yes.
Of course the museum would be good for them. So would the nature center. So would the class. So would an afternoon with friends.
These days, I've learned to ask a few more questions because a two-hour field trip with three kids isn't really two hours. There's getting everyone out the door, driving there, driving home, whatever we moved to make room for it, and whatever level of functioning we're capable of afterward. π
None of that makes the field trip a bad choice. It just makes it a choice. I think that's the part I've gotten better at with time.
We still do a lot. The freedom to go interesting places, try new things, and learn outside our house is one of my favorite parts of homeschooling. I'm just much less interested in doing something because it's available than I am in choosing the things that deserve a place in our week.
Sometimes that's the museum or the park. Sometimes it's an afternoon with people we love and sometimes the best thing on our calendar is absolutely nothing.
Not every good opportunity has to become our opportunity. πΏ