Kyle Miller

Kyle Miller Heal from narcissistic abuse! Move forward with your life!

08/22/2026

If we spent as much time and energy helping people who have gone through abuse as we do fighting with each other about who is more abusive. We would live in a very different world. Let's focus on the things that actually matter, not blaming everyone else.

08/22/2026

Abusive people only want one thing. Power and control. They don't want to be good parents or have good relationships, they just want power and control. They will also do anything they need to, including burning their own life down, to accomplish this.

08/21/2026

The children are unfortunately often forgotten in and after abusive relationships. Often the help they get isn't as good as the adults get, which isn't enough already. It's another heartbreaking thing to unravel for a parent who's been fighting for survival.

08/21/2026

Narcissists show their true selves at the end of the relationship, or in discard phases. It still may be subtle, but they show they don't care about you. They think they own us and everything else. This is a lie we don't need to accept!

08/20/2026

Any way we can get out of an abusive situation, especially with our kids is great. Making sure we aren't breaking any laws of course. They don't and won't fight fair. This means we have to be more calculated and a little more ruthless in order to not get screwed even more than we already have.

08/19/2026

Many people shut down and we lose credibility with them when we use terms that have been overused and misused. It's not that I don't want people to talk about the abuse they've gone through, but quite the opposite. It's that I want people to actually listen and help when we do.

08/18/2026

I don't always feed the trolls, although it's definitely entertaining sometimes. I know it comes with the territory. I also know I'd rather put energy into the people who need it and deserve it.

08/18/2026

Haters are gonna hate and they show up everywhere unfortunately. I respond because I understand some people are struggling and that's why they lash out. I also respond to show how you can respond, even to hate, in a kind respectful way. I also don't tolerate it and will block them. The important thing to remember is that it will affect our emotions and that's ok. We simply need to make sure we take the time to work through them.

08/18/2026

We all get to learn and grow from each other. Hopefully it helps with healing, but it definitely brings more connection, which is amazing. It gives me hope and I hope it does for others too. It's also a great distraction from any other garbage in the world.

08/17/2026

Don't use terms like narcissist or gaslighting in court or other places you are trying to get help from. They're overused and often misused terms. Many people struggle with believing our stories, or understanding what we went through. Instead give specific examples of what happened in plain language or using specific terms and examples like coercive control. This will help more people understand what actually happened and they'll be more likely to listen.

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