10/07/2026
How we feel about someone can quietly change the story we tell ourselves about their behavior.
This is where positive and negative sentiment override comes into play. For example, when we’re feeling good about our relationship, we’re more likely to give our partner the benefit of the doubt and view challenges as isolated instances rather than generalizing.
But when negative sentiment takes over, the same situations and challenges can feel like confirmation that there’s something wrong with our partner or the relationship as a whole.
And often, we don’t consciously choose that lens. Stress, past hurts, unresolved conflict, and resentment can shape the story our brain starts telling us. 💬
The first step in changing the pattern is noticing it.
Ask yourself: “Am I seeing this situation as it is, or am I seeing it through the lens of how I’ve been feeling about my partner?” 🔎
That little pause can create room for curiosity, perspective, and a more intentional response. 💡💭