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At first, people came because they believed they had a horse problem. The horse would not load, would not stand still, w...
10/06/2026

At first, people came because they believed they had a horse problem. The horse would not load, would not stand still, would not cooperate, was anxious, pushy, reactive, or had simply stopped doing what the person wanted.

Over time I began to question the phrase ‘horse problem’ itself.

The horse might certainly have a problem. The horse could be in pain, frightened, confused, socially isolated, physically unable to do what was being asked, or responding to something it had learned from earlier experiences. But that did not mean the horse was the problem.

That sounds like a small difference in language, but it changes how you look at the whole situation.

If you decide the horse is the problem, it becomes very easy to moralize the behavior. The horse is spoiled. Disobedient. Stubborn. A brat. Lazy. Dangerous. The horse needs more miles, more pressure, more wet saddle pads, or somebody who will finally make it behave.

If instead you recognize that the horse has a problem, you start asking different questions.

What is happening to this horse? What is the horse responding to?
Is there pain? Is the horse afraid? Does the horse understand what is being asked?
Are the conditions in which the horse lives meeting its physical and social needs?
What has the horse learned from previous experiences? What is the human doing that may be influencing what happens next?

The horse was not failing at being the horse we wanted. The horse was being a horse.

Once I began looking at it that way, I became much less interested in how to make the horse comply and much more interested in understanding what was happening in the whole system around the horse. It changed everything.

Excerpt from the EquineFlow - Horse Guided Human Development book.

What if the most important thing a horse brings into human development work is not sensitivity, intuition or “mirroring,...
10/05/2026

What if the most important thing a horse brings into human development work is not sensitivity, intuition or “mirroring,” but the fact that the horse is another subject in the system?

That distinction is important. A subject has its own experience, history, preferences and interests. An object exists for our purposes. The moment we treat the horse primarily as a tool for producing insight in a client, it becomes remarkably easy to interpret whatever the horse does in whatever way serves the session.

EquineFlow starts from a different premise. The horse does not have to mean anything. The horse gets to be a horse. What becomes interesting is the interaction that develops when several autonomous beings share the same space and none of them has complete control over what happens next. 🦋

Happy World Animal Day! 🦋
10/05/2026

Happy World Animal Day! 🦋

08/24/2026

At Return to Self- Equine Assisted Women's Wellness Retreat we cover the survivor vs thriver modes in depth....both are good and necessary to a happy, healthy life. If you've been in survivor mode for long enough and are ready to step into thriving more often....join us this September for a long weekend of nervous system education, reset and equine assisted coaching to get you on track to honoring your priorities successfully.
www.HRDretreats.com

Fabulous day at REIN Rescue with Summit Animal Health, EnjoyEquine LLC, and fellow EquineFlow practitioner Allison Ragan...
08/21/2026

Fabulous day at REIN Rescue with Summit Animal Health, EnjoyEquine LLC, and fellow EquineFlow practitioner Allison Ragan.

Summit sponsors REIN’s mustang mission and was there today filming a documentary about their work, so we spent the day talking horses, hanging out with the mustangs, swapping ideas about training and behavior, and generally getting happily sidetracked by very cool little horses.

And my EquineFlow brain was definitely firing: Joy Baker’s sanctuary is incredible, and mustangs have a lot to say about pressure, trust, autonomy, and leadership. The whole team is amazing, including Lindsey Duchaine, who has a true gift for starting mustangs the right way. There may be something interesting brewing there for EquineFlow. Stay tuned!

Alisa Farmer from Summit sent me home with Summit supplements for the aging EquineFlow herd. Pretty fabulous Friday. 🦋

How was your summer? ☀️ We spent another lovely summer in the Netherlands. One of the horsey highlights was a visit to a...
08/13/2026

How was your summer? ☀️ We spent another lovely summer in the Netherlands. One of the horsey highlights was a visit to a Warmblood stallion facility in Nederwetten, where young stallions with impossibly shiny coats spent the afternoon playing, rolling, snoozing and pestering their buddies beneath the centuries-old Oude Toren.

A long summer away from it all gives you a lot of space to reflect on what was, what matters, and what could be next.

The young stallions reminded me that life goes on even when old horses like Cielito pass.

Cielito’s tracks around the house have already overgrown. His grave has passion flowers criss crossings it. His spirit, like those young stallions, seems to dart and frolic all around the farm. He is here, even though he is not.

Somewhere between that old tower, those young stallions, the losses, and all that time to think, some new ideas started taking shape.

A little hint of what’s ahead: there will be new EquineFlow programming this fall. 🦋

Today, our beloved Cielito Lindo crossed the rainbow bridge. He went from enjoying a lovely, breezy summer day with his ...
06/23/2026

Today, our beloved Cielito Lindo crossed the rainbow bridge. He went from enjoying a lovely, breezy summer day with his herd to a peaceful end of a good life well lived. He was 28.

In those 28 years he touched the lives of hundreds of people, in the Netherlands, Germany and the United States.

He rode on Dutch beaches, through the clouds, through German mountain towns, flew on an airplane, traveled the East Coast, and won Hunter/jumper and dressage shows.

Often mistaken for a Dutch Warmblood he was in fact an English thoroughbred.

The last decade he lived in our front yard, where kids drove their scooters and skateboards around his hooves, and where we could trust him to be kind and gentle with whoever came to hang out with him.

He was the star of EquineFlow.

Countless times Cielito just being Cielito was exactly what people needed. People felt that he was ok with whoever they were. He had a force field around him that made everything better.

The stories this horse has heard, whispered to his mane while he stood quietly under his beloved trees, only he knows.

Most nights he slept below my bedroom window.

His days were spend walking circles around our farm house. From the tree, to the water, to the hay / feed, and back to the tree. A simple life, of peace, and quiet.

Thank you, Cielito Lindo, for 20 years of being your guardian. You made the world a better place and it has been an incredible honor to walk you home. ❤️

05/04/2026

Fabulous weekend with the Girl Scouts!

Fabulous retreat by Certified EquineFlow Practitioners Heather Lewis,  Tyburski and Danielle Wilcock in Colorado.
04/24/2026

Fabulous retreat by Certified EquineFlow Practitioners Heather Lewis, Tyburski and Danielle Wilcock in Colorado.

Introducing the first Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for Horses:The DSM-Equine is a standard clas...
04/01/2026

Introducing the first Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for Horses:

The DSM-Equine is a standard classification of mental disorders in horses. It allows owners to diagnose their horses and medicate them appropriately so they can become more functional, compliant, and productive members of the barn.

The DSM-E contains more than 70 equine mental disorders. This edition also includes a new diagnosis: Prolonged Grief Disorder, defined as a horse taking too long to recover from the loss of a herd mate.

Below are real-life examples of how the DSM-E has already helped us identify and treat patterns of ongoing instability in mood, behavior, self-image, and herd functioning.

Subject 1. Huckleberry R. - Shetland Gelding - Aged 16

Symptoms: Inattentive, Impulsive, Compulsive, Defiant: H.R. is unable to follow rules and directions. He acts without thinking of the consequences and routinely escapes enclosures in order to do whatever he wants to do. He ignores reprimands and reminders. He never stops eating and frequently steals food from others.
When asked why he behaves this way, he does not respond.

However, when the word “cookie” is mentioned, he looks up immediately.

Diagnosed with
• Conduct Disorder
• Eating Disorder
• Specific Learning Disorder
• Social Communication Disorder
• Selective Mutism
• Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)

Subject 2. Cielito Lindo R. - Thoroughbred - Aged 28

Symptoms: Excessive worry, Mood Swings, Difficulty concentrating, Delusions, Hallucinations, Panic Attacks. C.R. cannot tolerate being 24/7 indoors without turnout, movement or sensory stimulation. When turned out, he refuses to go into /near his stall, even during rain. When the rest of the horses leave, he experiences severe panic and cannot stand still. He shows extreme distress when asked to work during cold windy days, and appears to have a plastic bags phobia. When routines are disrupted, C. has great difficulty adjusting. When feed does not have correct flavor or consistency, C. refuses to eat.

Diagnosed with

• Autism Spectrum Disorder
• Social (Pragmatic) Communication Disorder
• Separation Anxiety Disorder
• Panic Disorder
• Generalized Anxiety Disorder
• Grand Mal Delusions

Subject 4. Zen R. - Haflinger - Aged Unknown.

Symptoms: Oral fixation, Emotional Numbness, Suicidal Thoughts, Difficulty Concentrating, Impulsivity, Defiant, Persistent malcompliance. Z. has a difficult personality. Z. displays an oppositional behavior toward people, often doing the exact opposite of what he is asked to do. He cannot stay focused or maintain a routine. If he is asked to do two circles in a row, he displays destructive tendencies, such as pushing the rider's knee into a post or sitting on a car. He also displays self-destructive tendencies and instead of going over a jump like normal horses, he opts to go through a jump, often breaking wooden poles, and seeming to enjoy it. Z. puts random object in his mouth and takes it away, including water-hoses. His strong oral fixation is exceptionally strong with female humans with breast augmentation, and he has been observed twice using his teeth to grab hold of breast tissue, suggesting he may be stuck in a Freudian developmental phase.

Diagnosed with

• Oppositional Defiant Disorder
• Attention-Deficit Disorder (ADD)
• Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
• Kleptomania
• Binge Eating Disorder
• Delusional Disorder
• Bipolar I Disorder

Subject 4. Wik R. - Dutch Warmblood - Aged 23

Symptoms: W.R. shows high anxiety when his herd members are taken away from him and becomes extremely agitated when separated. He displays explosive behavior when neighbors shoot their AR-15 next to the barn. W.R. displays emotional numbness and is generally not interested in socializing unless people scratch his withers. When people don’t scratch at the the right slot he can switch from sweet to psycho within the same minute. While a high performing show jumper at age 4, he has a loss of interest in all activities other than grazing, napping and rolling in the dirt. He appears unable to function unless he is in full control of the other horses in the herd and becomes violent when others do not comply. W.R. frequently flaunts his ge***al parts in public settings, traumatizing little kids.

Diagnosed with

• Unspecified Disruptive, Impulse-Control and Conduct Disorder
• Antisocial Personality Disorder
• Borderline Personality Disorder
• Dependent Personality Disorder
• Exhibitionistic Disorder
• Restless Legs Syndrome
• Anxiety Disorder

Herd-Wide Treatment Program

After extensive research, we discovered that nearly all symptoms of equine mental disorders eventually disappear when subjects were provided with the following therapeutic interventions over the past 15 years:

• 24/7 turnout
• 24/7 access to hay
• Clean water
• Never being hungry
• Free medical care
• Safe housing
• Low-stress environment
• Living in the same herd for years
• No trailering
• No coercive riding
• Gentle, respectful interactions
• Weekly grooming sessions
• Low sugar / low carb feed
• No confinement
• No fear-based training
• Training matched to natural interests and abilities

Side effects include dramatically improved mood, cooperation, and overall herd stability.

Interestingly, when these environmental treatments are applied consistently, many previously diagnosed psychiatric disorders appear to resolve spontaneously.

Our research suggests that symptoms may have been caused by systematic conditions failure rather than individual brokenness.

Further research is needed.

DISCLAIMER:

Like the DSM-5 for humans, the DSM-Equine contains many diagnoses whose biological basis remains unclear. It relies heavily on cultural bias and overlooks context, environment and meaning.

Of the 297 mental disorders listed, most lack clear scientific markers.

Despite this, the DSM strongly promotes the idea that psychological disorders are primarily genetic in origin and can be resolved by pharmaceutical intervention, even though no gene variants have been identified for approximately 97% of diagnoses.

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