08/06/2022
For the past 10 years I bought into to every trick of the trade thinking this was the magic elixir. I moved forward with an ignorant faith in the next “tool” for my belt. This rewarded me with two failed business, a failed marriage, a faith crisis, and for now stuck in job that makes me sick to my stomach (no joke! called in sick twice this week).
My biggest mistake was thinking I could “out affirm” my limiting beliefs. I felt like I didn’t need to address my issues head on. HUGE problem! All those tricks & tools gave me a false sense of belief in myself. For a short time, they led me to believe that I could fly to the moon. It was when I had those feelings is when I made my biggest risks, that cost me the most.
The truth was I was never ready to take on these aspirations. That’s because I had (and still do have) too many limiting beliefs that prevent me from reaching my dreams. By not addressing these beliefs, it created patterns of financial stress, relationship issues, and health problems. Or layman’s terms; FAILURES.
I have found a way to fix myself that serves me. Brick by brick, and only one at a time. I’ll give the format I use
1. Take inventory of your life! Results do NOT lie. What do you say to yourself? How do you feel about yourself? Do these SERVE you? If not, you have found a limiting belief.
2. Address it! WHY do you say those things to yourself? What caused you to feel this way? Where did it stem from? HOW does is make you feel?
3. Replace it!
Now, I do not do this by myself. I use an online EMDR subscription. I am not a sponsor and am not selling anything to you at this time. It is simply a tool I wish I had years ago. Check out the link. PM with questions. Free 3 day trial and $70 a month!
https://www.virtualemdr.com/