07/20/2026
Today has been tough. I received a call from Sean Maples this morning that his mother, Pat Paddleford, had passed over the weekend.
I don't know if you have ever had the benefit of having a "work mom" but for those of you who have, you know how important this person can be in your life. Pat was the exact right person for me to have in this role during my time with the Oklahoma House of Representatives. She was my cheerleader to run for office, she was my gatekeeper as a lawmaker, and she was one of the most important people in my life next to my own flesh and blood mom.
Since she left the capitol in retirement, I did not see her enough, I did not call her enough, and I will certainly miss having the chance to pick up the phone and hear her voice.
Thank you, Mother Superior, for raising the "ornery little s**t" that you brought up in the building. I will promise to keep being me. Love you