Dr Zoë Lumiere

08/15/2026

If you’re in pet grief pain…

If you loved an animal so much that your whole world fell apart when they left — that's not weakness.

That's just the size of your heart. It’s huge.

You're an empath.

And empathic people carry more guilt than most when their animal passes. And so much of that suffering is unnecessary.

Sadness isn't optional.
We can't lose our best friend and not feel it.
Heartache is non-negotiable.
It’s the price we pay.
It’s actually just love but one of the most painful experiences there is.

But guilt is different.
Guilt isn't actually about the loss — it's about the belief system you built as a child. It’s an irrational reaction that feels like you failed them… just because your love wasn’t enough to help them live forever.
And that irrational guilt, we can release.
We don’t have to suffer the way we do.
We can release the confusion, self-doubt and isolation that follows pet grief guilt.

If this makes you curious, you can watch my mum’s free live session recording “Freedom from Guilt”.

She’ll help you understand why guilt is so painful and how to release it.

Watch it now by clicking the link in comments.

Or comment GUILT and we’ll send it to you.

We love you.
Fenix and mum Dr Zoë 🐾 👩‍🦰

04/27/2026

There’s nothing in this whole world better than a happy cry.

And yet if we don’t feel…
all our feelings…
we’ll have no concept that a happy cry might even exist.

You’ll think it’s a conspiracy created by Disney.

A happy cry feels like you’re getting married again 💍
Or getting to play with puppies 🐶
It feels like a good night’s sleep 🛌
It’s better than any drug I’ve ever had 💊
It is a metaphysical clearing and balancing of all your chakras in just a few moments ✨

Doesn’t have to be a long time… just a good time… 😉 thank will leave you feeling more grounded and peaceful for hours.

So the next time something truly wonderful happens, don’t sweep it under the rug and keep going. Take the time let it in breathe and let that Joy and Love break you open into a vulnerable mess of magic and more 😁 😭

04/22/2026

Wait til the end for Fenix to deliver the punchline 🤣

And to all my friends and family… I am joking 😬

…

I think 🤪

12/24/2025

I couldn’t be prouder of this book.

Thanks to all of you who have supported me.
But mostly thank you Ellie for being the sassy, bold Light in my life I didn’t know I needed.
Thank you for trying so hard when you had a fur body… your tenacity and courage inspired my everyday.
Thank you for teaching me how to growl, and reclaim my voice and stand my sacred ground.
But mostly thank you for know guiding and playing with me daily… as my ArchAnimal.

All details about the book — including how to read it online as my gift to the world — and how to order your own paperback on Amazon at link in bio — thebluehealer.org

And if you pledged my kickstarter your copies are now on their way, all around the world… thank you for being my team, my foundation, my rainbow bridge club.

I’m about to take off for a few weeks, so will be taking some much needed family and fun time in Bali and Japan… and can’t wait to share my next steps for The Blue Healer Pet Grief Support community when I’m back. Follow and sign up for emails too 💌

I love you.
Zoe
Mum of
Author and Founder of

11/22/2025

Writing this book saved me. It made me walk my talk.

It made me meet my pain with presence, self-compassion, and the courage to reconnect with Ellie 🌈

The pure unconditional connection we have with animals create a deep attachment that naturally triggers wounds from childhood.

While I wish no one would ever know the pain of having a loved one pass… and I would never share this directly with someone who was in one of the initial phases of pet grief….
But if we face our hurt and allow our beloved animal to help us love ourselves through the journey… miracles of healing await. And a clearer sense of life and purpose is revealed.

Kindle launched today.
Paperback launched Tuesday.

It’s been a ride for sure…
one of the most expansive and one I’m most proud of.

Thanks for all your support!
Share with anyone that loves animals 🫶
Buying the kindle TODAY helps us make a splash 💦
I can send you the PDF if you don’t have kindle. DM me 💬

Zoe

11/19/2025

We hit 100 preorders yesterday… and my heart is so full.
Thank you. Every single one of you who has supported, shared, commented, or messaged — you’re helping us change the narrative around pet grief and bring real healing to people who desperately need it. 🌈💗

The Blue Healer isn’t just a book.
It’s a lifeline for anyone trying to survive the “loss” of their animal… and a path to reconnecting with them in a real, living way.

Right now, Kindle preorders help us gain the momentum we need so this message reaches more people.

So if you’re able, please preorder the Kindle, even if you don’t use Kindle at all.
It’s only 99c, and it makes a huge difference for visibility.

And of course — if you don’t have a Kindle, we’ve got you.
Just email [email protected] and we’ll send you the full PDF, online version, + bonus resources.

Thank you for helping me honor Ellie.
And thank you for helping bring comfort, connection, and hope to hearts that are hurting. 💗🌈📘

We Love You 😘
Zoe, 🌈 Ellie and Fenix too

And a huge shout out to Kim from . The book design is EVERYTHING 🤯