Jillin’ It : Your Love Liaison

Jillin’ It : Your Love Liaison Matchmaker + Dating Coach helping bold singles build real connections.

Are you ready for it?

• Featured in Maxim Mag Top 10 Matchmakers
• Catch the Love Line with Jill on 96.5 TIC
📍 Connecticut + New York
Work with me 👉🏻 www.Jillinit.com

Over the years, I’ve been invited into conversations about dating, relationships, matchmaking, divorce, modern love, and...
09/05/2026

Over the years, I’ve been invited into conversations about dating, relationships, matchmaking, divorce, modern love, and what it actually takes. I’m always grateful for the opportunity... because it means the conversation around how we find and choose love is changing, and people need to be informed!

I believe dating can be more intentional without becoming less fun. That you can have standards without closing yourself off. That chemistry matters, but compatibility is more complex and important.

And that the right support can change not just who you meet, but how you show up when you do.

So if you’re new here, consider this your little “who is Jill?” cheat sheet. ♥️

I’m a private matchmaker and dating expert working with successful, relationship-minded singles who are ready to stop leaving their love life entirely to chance.

If you’re serious about getting serious, there are a few ways to work with me:

♡ Private Matchmaking

♡ Love Coaching

♡ LoVe CluB for Singles

And yes… I’ve got people to introduce you to. 👀

The modern dating problem is that we’ve been trained to believe we should be able to identify the right option immediate...
08/28/2026

The modern dating problem is that we’ve been trained to believe we should be able to identify the right option immediately.

We want the chemistry on the first date.

The certainty by date three.

The perfect alignment before we’ve even gotten to know someone.

It’s possible. But I’m sorry to say, it’s not realistic.

That’s why I think one of the most important shifts you can make in dating is moving from “How do I know if this person is right for me?” to “What can I learn by getting to know this person?”

That doesn’t mean ignoring your standards or forcing something that clearly isn’t right. It is about leaving room for discovery. And the only way to find your person is to stop trying to figure everything out before the relationship has had a chance to begin.

If you’re ready to date with more intention, DM me. I’ll tell you how private matchmaking approaches the process differently.

Proud to be featured by DatingNews.com in 10 Tips From Matchmaking Industry Experts, sharing a little about how I found ...
08/26/2026

Proud to be featured by DatingNews.com in 10 Tips From Matchmaking Industry Experts, sharing a little about how I found my way into this work and what I believe makes someone truly great at it. It’s all for LOVE, but it’s certainly not for the faint of heart.

My contribution is #10: Turn Life Experience Into Insight. A decade ago, I was newly divorced with two young kids, trying to figure out dating again. I had no idea that chapter would eventually become the foundation for the work I do today. What started as personal experience became curiosity. Curiosity became studying people, relationships, attraction and connection. And eventually, it became Jillin’ It.

One thing I’ve learned along the way: Become a student of people before you become a matchmaker. Curiosity will always take you further than assumptions.

Grateful to DatingNews.com for including my voice in this conversation. Read the full article along with the advice of some of my incredible colleagues here:

https://tinyurl.com/datingnewsJillinitexpert

Maybe it’s called FALLING in LOVE because at some point, you have to LET GO.
08/21/2026

Maybe it’s called FALLING in LOVE because at some point, you have to LET GO.

08/20/2026

People are finding meaningful relationships outside the communities they were raised in. And yet, we still tend to use demographic similarities as shorthand for compatibility. But none of those things can tell you what it actually feels like to build a life with someone.

The more useful questions are:

How do you each define family?

What does marriage mean to you?

What do you want your life to look like?

Can you talk honestly about your differences?

Can you stay curious when something feels unfamiliar?

Sometimes the person who looks least like the person you thought you were supposed to choose ends up sharing the values that matter most. And that’s where the real conversation begins.

Thank you to Christine & Salt and everyone at 96.5 TIC for another great conversation on Love Line. 🎙️

Have a dating, relationship, divorce, parenting, or situationship question you’d like us to answer anonymously on the air? Send it to [email protected] 💌 Your question might be exactly what someone else in Connecticut needs to hear this week.

Turns out, you don’t have to be hard to be powerful. Water made this masterpiece… slowly, softly, just by continuing to ...
08/14/2026

Turns out, you don’t have to be hard to be powerful. Water made this masterpiece… slowly, softly, just by continuing to flow.

There’s something to be said for trusting what can happen over time.

Pretty good dating advice, too…

Apparently, every state has its own little personality when it comes to online dating. 😂 This map shows the words appear...
08/12/2026

Apparently, every state has its own little personality when it comes to online dating. 😂 This map shows the words appearing most often in dating profiles across the U.S... and apparently Connecticut is talking about the “casino” while New York is talking about the “museum.”

It’s funny, but it also says something about how we date online: a profile can tell you a lot about what someone likes, where they go, and how they describe themselves. But it can’t tell you whether you’ll actually be a good fit.

Dating apps can introduce you to a lot of people.
I’d rather introduce you to the right ones.
That’s where matchmaking comes in.

I work with successful, relationship-minded singles throughout Connecticut and New York who are looking for something more intentional than leaving their love life entirely to an algorithm.

♥️ Private Matchmaking — personalized introductions based on compatibility, values, and what you’re actually looking for.

♥️ Love Coaching — thoughtful, strategic support for dating with more confidence and intention.

♥️ Love Club — a community for CT + NY singles who are serious about finding a relationship and want to meet people more intentionally.

If you’re ready to date a little differently, send me a DM or visit the link in my bio. 💌 I’ve got people to introduce you to.

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