08/06/2026
3 myths overthinkers believe that prevent them from practicing mindfulness meditation and quieting their busy brains
Many people have heard about the benefits of mindfulness meditation in reducing stress and anxiety, but few people have taken the leap of faith to practice consistently.
Why is that?
Doubt. Fear. Lack of time.
But these are all myths and misunderstandings.
Here are 3 more myths that prevent overthinkers from practicing mindfulness and quieting mental chatter.
Myth 1: Meditation is supposed to stop thoughts
“Empty the mind.”
I'm not sure where that phrase originated, but emptying the mind might be the dumbest direction to give to someone meditating, especially if they're a beginner. Anyone who sits with their mind for even a few seconds notices thoughts arise and disappear like the sun rises and sets. That's just the way it is.
Seeing that doesn't mean you're meditating poorly.
It means you're cultivating awareness — a key skill in meditation.
Myth 2: You can't have a calm body with a busy mind
The body and mind tend to run in tandem, but it's possible to have a busy mind and a calm body simultaneously.
But here's where it gets tricky:
Many people notice their minds aren't slowing down while meditating, so they spring up from the cushion, hoping that movement will still the mind. However, the mind keeps turning, and the relationship with thoughts doesn't change.
Which, by the way, is the real secret sauce — changing your relationship with thinking.
Once you trust that the mind thinks and there’s nothing wrong with that, your body will naturally settle despite any busyness in the mind.
Myth 3: If you can't sit still, you can't practice mindfulness meditation
Mindfulness meditation can happen in four postures: sitting, standing, lying down, or walking.
However, most people only know about the sitting posture. So when they can't sit still for more than a few minutes without having a minor panic attack, they abort the practice altogether.
But I'm here to inform folks that you don't have to sit down to practice.
If your body and mind feel more attuned to walking practice, practice walking meditation. If you're more attuned to standing practice, practice standing meditation. If you're more attuned to lying down, practice lying down meditation.
The purpose of practice isn't to fit into a box; it's to discover what works for you to relieve suffering.
So, I encourage you to experiment.
Just don't overthink it :)