Feeling Absolutely Fabulous

10/10/2026

A reason. A season. A lifetime. Not everyone is a friend for life.

I remember first hearing that making life changes meant some people get left behind. Not everyone likes who or what you become. They try to change you back or disappear 🫠

My first reaction NO! Shock. Disbelief.

It was a job interview and I was being tested to see if I’d do whatever it takes to get ahead.

Softening into this realisation over the years, I’ve embraced different philosophies. The psychologist Jung taught that as we become more radiant envy plays a role in people’s perception of us.

A spiritual teacher taught me about the energy of relationships. Like a battery that runs out of juice. Not everyone is plugged into the same system.

And consciousness plays a huge role in creating changes in how we show up and who wants to come along for the ride.

Some people grow with us. We don’t all think alike or follow the same pathways. But what we do is love, respect and support each other. That’s true lifelong friendship.

And it begins at any age or level. Be you, the wonderful you. And…

Relax. The YOUniverse has you.

Big love 💕
Jacqueline

10/09/2026

I first read You Can Heal Your Life in 1988. I picked it up in a metaphysical bookstore in Ottawa. And spent the day moving from coffeeshop to pub reading. My outing to the city transformed.

And my life began to change. Now a classic it’s still making an impact on people’s lives.

Happy heavenly birthday Louise and thank you for all you shared.

On what would have been Louise Hay’s 100th birthday, we’re remembering the woman whose words have helped so many of us find our way back to ourselves. 💛

Louise believed that learning to love and accept ourselves can change how we move through life. Her teachings are still here when we need a little encouragement, a reminder to be kind to ourselves, or the words, “I love and approve of myself.”

We miss you, Louise. Thank you for all the love you left with us. ✨

10/08/2026

It’s taken time to get to this. I used to feel responsible for everyone and everything. So I would look back with regrets.

If only was part of my makeup. If only I’d done, been, tried harder. If only I didn’t…do, be, try.

And gradually, slowly, I began to see through a new lens. It’s not up to me. It’s up to them. And now, I’m content to accept the way things are.

Doesn’t mean I no longer care. It means I let go. I did the best I could with the information I had at the time.

And that Dearheart is good enough. Allow yourself forgiveness, compassion and love. Then move on. Learn, grow, change for sure.

Then move on.

Big love 💕
Jacqueline

10/07/2026

This is a life changer!

Stimulus, pause, respond. Don’t react. Take a moment or two…or ten. Then respond.

And remember, no response is a response. Get it?

Do not attempt to control your thoughts.

The negative voice in our heads which we call the script will always have something to say. And it won’t be good. Listen to your heart instead.

Big love 💕
Jacqueline

10/06/2026

It really is this simple…

Big love 💕
Jacqueline