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Why First Marriages Are Destined to Fail (and how to recreate it with the same partner) 💔

Let me say this in a different way...your first marriage with your spouse, your partner, will inevitably disappoint you, and you will find that it is not satisfying, it will be essentially over. And our news is that you can recreate an entirely different marriage with the same person if you have the skills, and if you understand what's going on in your life.

~Dr. Barbara Grossman

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‎Falling in Love Forever: Why first marriages are destined to fail: and how to re-create it with the same partner on Apple Podcasts ‎Show Falling in Love Forever, Ep Why first marriages are destined to fail: and how to re-create it with the same partner - Sep 18, 2020

Not too long ago, I encountered a remarkable couple that inspired my thoughts for a prior newsletter. They embody deep love, honesty, and the art of negotiation despite their differences. Their story challenges us to reflect on what truly matters and where compromise can coexist without jeopardizing the bond of love and self-respect.

I've had the pleasure of knowing both partners individually for years, and it was heartwarming to see them together. They share a charming connection and a passion for martial arts, a hobby that has brought them closer in ways unimaginable. Yet, their newfound love faces a unique challenge. As their relationship solidifies, a dilemma emerges for the boyfriend: he wishes for his girlfriend to train with women rather than men, citing his discomfort with the intense physical contact between her and other men in their muscular martial arts school.

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Defining Love: How Boundaries Strengthen Relationships - Falling In Love Forever Defining Love: How Boundaries Strengthen Relationships I saw a couple this week who inspired this newsletter. They are in love, honest, and have differences that need negotiation. They present a tough issue that requires deep personal reflection about what is important and what can be compromised wi...

Creating Boundaries - The Path to Feel Respected, Appreciated & Valued

Okay, so I want to be provocative and start the conversation by mentioning to you that the most stable geometric form in the universe is a triangle.

How that relates to our life and relationship is that a relationship of two people, I'll talk about one man and one woman because that's our focus for today - but it applies to any romantic relationship - the essential relationship between two people is basically unstable. Two people in a relationship is not stable, because you're constantly growing and changing over a lifespan.
~Dr. Barbara Grossman 💕

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‎Falling in Love Forever: Creating Boundaries: The Path to Feel Respected, Appreciated & Valued on Apple Podcasts ‎Show Falling in Love Forever, Ep Creating Boundaries: The Path to Feel Respected, Appreciated & Valued - May 8, 2020

The Changing Roles of Men and Women 👨 👩 👫

So couples bring me these conflicts. It's out of these conflicts that we see together the inevitability of having to grow and learn how to share your experience and learn how to understand what you want in behavioral terms so that you're not criticizing your partner, but you're engaging in it in a process of growing together. This brings a new chapter to a couple's life, and it's wondrous to see this unfold.

~Dr. Barbara Grossman

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‎Falling in Love Forever: The Changing Roles of Men and Women on Apple Podcasts ‎Show Falling in Love Forever, Ep The Changing Roles of Men and Women - Jan 8, 2020

There is more to say about the middle-aged couple who could not hear each other. You might recall that the wife was trying to invite her husband to grow their emotional connection.

She didn’t say that exactly in those words. She said other words that were vague and implied there was something wrong with the relationship. This is human nature. It is common to invalidate the status quo when we want something more.

The problem also was that her invitation was abstract and therefore unclear. Besides implying something was wrong with the relationship, there was no concrete request that was actionable for her man to make things right for her.

This translates to her man, any man in a similar conversation, a vague message of criticism with no way to win with his woman. This does not feel good to any man. The result is defensiveness.

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Revisiting a Quiet Day In the Office - Falling In Love Forever There is more to say about the middle-aged couple who could not hear each other. You might recall that the wife was trying to invite her husband to grow their emotional connection. She didn’t say that exactly in those words. She said other words that were vague and implied there was something wron...

The Magic of Deeply Listening: Transforming Upsets Into Emotional Connection 💕

It's hard to hear anger, it's hard to hear hurt and disappointment. We feel personally challenged, criticized, and inadequate, it's just so painful to hear our loved ones complain about us. But it's, it's worth listening. Because if you can move through that you get to the jewels of what each partner wants, what works and what doesn't work.
~Dr. Barbara Grossman

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‎Falling in Love Forever: The Magic of Deeply Listening: Transforming Upsets Into Emotional Connection on Apple Podcasts ‎Show Falling in Love Forever, Ep The Magic of Deeply Listening: Transforming Upsets Into Emotional Connection - Jun 19, 2020

Feeling Unimportant: Becoming #1 With Your Partner

If you haven't been feeling like you are #1 with your partner, and you want to restore a close connection quickly, this course can help you.

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Get the Loving Relationship You Desire Overcome the #1 Challenge to a Loving Relationship

Marriage has never been easy, but in the current culture of equality, gender and role fluidity, romantic relationships may be even more strained. Yet, the fundamentals of navigating a relationship to fulfill the promise of a loving marriage has not changed.

The key to satisfying the desire for love is the learning and growth that must occur for the couple as soon as the honeymoon is over. ❤❤❤

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An Old Tale for a New Era - Falling In Love Forever An Old Tale for a New Era Marriage has never been easy, but in the current culture of equality, gender and role fluidity, romantic relationships may be even more strained. Yet, the fundamentals of navigating a relationship to fulfill the promise of a loving marriage has not changed. The key to satis...

Drs. Barbara & Michael Grossman have helped over 1,600 couples to overcome their relationship barriers. They have found there are 5 unconscious relationship barriers impacting 90% of couples. Discovering YOUR relationship barrier is the first step to finally having the love you desire. ❤

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Creating More S*x In Your Marriage 💕

"It's a paradox. And you have to be aware of that in a relationship. What creates sexual desire is that feeling that you want to be close to the one you love, but you feel like they're definitely separate from you. You're not quite that intimately close, in such a way that you're feeling like they're a sister, a brother, a parent, or a child, they're different. So you have this paradox of needing to feel a sense of mystery, a sense, of newness, with your partner. And how do you create that?

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