12/28/2013
Did you know? Children with learning disorders can suffer from low self-esteem. Focus on what your child is good at and celebrate these strengths! It can help boost their self-esteem. Here are some other great self-esteem boosting tips for parents, courtesy of the-special-needs-child.com:
• Tell your child often that you love them and let them know that you are glad they are part of your family. No one has ever spoiled a child with giving them too much love.
• Show your children that you love them by spending time with them. Listen to their point of view, help them achieve their goals, drive them to various activities and stay to support and watch them.
• Support their school work by taking an interest without taking control. Take part in school activities, such as cake sales or volunteering for activities when you can.
• Encourage friendships! Get to know your child’s friends and make them feel welcome in your home.
• Help your children with school work. Don't only focus on subjects they are not good at. Children need to practice what they are good at to feel successful. Also, be sure to praise effort, not their final grades. If the end result is the only thing that matters, they may get discouraged along the way.
• Stay in touch with your child’s teacher. A good relationship between home and school is very important.
• Get involved in your child’s hobbies, and help them explore their interests.
• Make sure your child knows that they are needed in the family. Let them do chores, such as feeding pets, setting the table or washing up, these are excellent self-esteem activities. Make sure the tasks help them contribute to the family and are not only about cleaning up their own messes.
• Let your child help you with something – chances are they are better than you at figuring out how to use the TV and DVD player!
• When playing games with your younger children, make sure they win occasionally.
• Involve them in your extended family; this will help them get to know their family and their history.
• Keep all mementos, such as certificates, trophies and prizes of their success and important milestones.
• Develop little family rituals, like reading a story at bedtime, a special goodbye kiss or other special things that are unique to your family.
• Always celebrate all achievements and successes.
• Don’t solve all your child’s problems or fight all their battles for them. Teach them problem-solving skills and let them learn to manage situations for themselves. This will show your child that you have faith in him.
• If there have been a lot of changes in your child’s life, such as moving or divorce, keep a picture diary of where they've been. Also keep them in touch with people and places from the past. This will help ease the transition for them, while safeguarding their self-worth.