Nicole Moore

Nicole Moore World's Best Love Coach! I help women flirt, be sexy, be confident and own their feminine power so they can attract AND keep the right man for them!

Most dating advice is made for normal women and that’s why it doesn’t work for you. Exceptional women don’t need to be t...
09/11/2026

Most dating advice is made for normal women and that’s why it doesn’t work for you.

Exceptional women don’t need to be told to be patient and love will find them (we manifest at hyper speed everywhere else and it’s infuriating when love doesn’t work the same way).
We need permission to WANT everything we f*cking want in love without feeling like we’re asking for too much just because the vast majority of men out there ARE not good enough for us.

Exceptional women don’t need to love their single life, we already do. We LOVE our work, our friends, travel. There’s plenty to do.
We need permission to FEEL just how badly we do want love. To admit something’s missing, even though life is really good.
The pain of missing out is actually a motivator when used correctly.

Exceptional women don’t need to compromise in love, AT ALL. Our intuition sniffs out inconsistency at warp speed. Our standards aren’t too high, they’re our protection from a mediocre man draining our life force and making us believe we cant have more than these men have given us.
We need to BELIEVE we can manifest a partner who has ALL of what we want, really believe it, even though we’ve never seen that kind of man before and everyone else seems to be happy with men who are so much less.

Exceptional women need to be exceptionally held to manifest true love because love is the one area our power feels turned off, the one area we can’t work hard and make a result come, the one area we secretly doubt ourselves even though everyone else says omg you’re such a catch, I can’t believe you’re single.

And when we finally believe we can manifest the man who meets our standards, when we finally truly feel worthy, when we stop being afraid of getting disappointed again and open our hearts fully,
the MOST amazing man comes in and the thing we know is: yes he’s amazing but he’s just my match.

My clients always say “you were right, Nicole, he does exist and he’s even better than I imagined.”

THAT’s the kind of love that you deserve if you’re an exceptional woman.

And I’m the best woman on the planet to help you find it. ❤️

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09/09/2026

Fox News got my celebrity love coach take on Sydney Sweeney and Scooter Braun’s relationship.

Now that Sydney’s been introduced to the kids, it’s likely Scooter sees her as a long term mate.

But, while dating someone with kids can be wonderful, not everyone wants to give up potential romance or career time to step into a parental role. (nor should they have to)

My gut tells me if she had to, Sydney would choose her career over the relationship, but hopefully she isn’t being asked to choose and she can be her full self in this partnership.

Do you think this couple will last?



Scott Braun
Sydney Sweeney

1️⃣ “I’m not really available for something that stays this casual. If that’s where you’re at, I’m gonna step back.”✨ Yo...
09/02/2026

1️⃣ “I’m not really available for something that stays this casual. If that’s where you’re at, I’m gonna step back.”
✨ You’re taking yourself out of the “easy access” category.

2️⃣ “I know what I bring to the table and how valuable my presence is and I’m really only looking to date someone who feels the same way and acts on that. If that’s you, amazing and if not, no hard feelings but I’ll need to focus elsewhere.”
✨Pure self worth that he feels instantly.

3️⃣ “I like you, but I can tell when effort starts dropping, and that’s usually where I start to check out.”
✨ He realizes that your interest isn’t automatic. It responds to how he shows up.

✨Comment EFFORT for the one text that instantly makes him want to step up his effort and positions you as a woman of worth.

4️⃣ “If you’re not in a place to show up more consistently, that’s ok and I respect it, but I will adjust how much I invest in this connection accordingly.”
✨This sets your standard without blaming him and shows him that you won’t invest more if he doesn’t step up more.

These texts don’t force him, they show him that you value yourself enough to walk away if he can’t measure up
And men pull forward when they feel the energy of a secure woman who is too good to lose.

💌 Comment CLUB (or DM “club”) and I’ll send you the invite to Secure Woman Club, with 100+ secure woman texts, detachment and confidence audios, and your 24/7 AI Love Coach so you always show up like the woman he can’t forger.

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08/28/2026

Truth: Men are selfish UNTIL they are emotionally hooked on you.

Until it feels like THEIR idea to prioritize you, spoil you, take care of you, they’re not gonna do it no matter how much you give and give to them and try to prove you’re worth it.

This is because Men are better than women at acting upon their own self-interest, which is why they often appear selfish.

That’s why the second you like a man, you’re putting him first and it feels like he’s still operating in his own lane, which infuriates you.

The KEY to unlocking a man’s devotion and getting him to see taking care of you as IN HIS SELF INTEREST?

It’s all in how you speak to him.

Because a woman’s words impact men way more than you even know.

Men absorb women’s words and let them impact their emotions, even if they don’t show it in the outside.

That unavailable man who can’t open up?
Guarantee he’s still mulling over words an ex said to him that completely broke him.

Now I can hear you saying:
But, I tried to get a man to act right before, I talked a LOT actually and it seemed like my words had no impact on him…

That’s because you spoke to him BEFORE you had emotional leverage with him.
You asked him to meet your needs BEFORE he, in his own mind, had come to see putting you first as in his own self interest.

Your words fell flat on him because he wasn’t emotionally invested enough in you yet
to see caring for your needs first as HIS choice, his self interest.

When a man is truly emotionally invested in a woman, when he sees taking care of her as his self interest, he will fall all over himself to meet her needs. She will only ever have to ask once, if at all.

There’s a way to speak to men that naturally activates them WANTING to put you first,
that makes taking care of you seem like it’s HIS idea, not yours,
that activates the King instinct in him to serve, provide, protect because he’s so emotionally invested in you that it just feels natural to treat you like a Queen.

I want to show you how to do that and I laid out the entire formula in Feminine Communication Queen.

Comment QUEEN and I’ll send it straight to you. 👑

08/27/2026

This is how you get him to fully commit…

1) stop taking his resistance personally, it’s literally not about you. he fears failing again and until he has released that fear, he will hold a part of himself back from you even if you are in a committed relationship.

2) let him burn through the fear, usually off on his own on a trip or a weekend where he doesn’t see you, or when he pulls back for a second. the key is to not get super anxious and project your energy into him. hold the line, give him, space, focus on you.

3) double down on your self love, be obsessed with your own happiness, truly get to the place where you know it’s either him or someone better but either way you know you will be with your forever love.

4) watch him come running and commit fully when your secure energy has shown him he won’t fail again, you’re the right woman and he can trust it.

I know all of this is easier said than done when you’re afraid of losing a great guy or taking his behavior personally, but I promise you mastering the ENERGY game in love works.

Your love life results are truly a reflection of your own energy. And this is exactly why my private clients attract top 1% men, because I help them become so rock solid in love that men say WOW, she’s rare, she’s different, she’s too good to lose, I HAVE to be with her.

Comment 333 for the one minute dating types quiz that will reveal the #1 quality a man must have to truly be your forever love (it’s different for each type) and also reveal the energy block you must shift for him to come into your life and fully commit.

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08/26/2026

Is church the new Tinder? Gen Z seems to think so…

I’ve told my clients for the past 14 years:
the ONLY way for a relationship to feel easy is by truly making sure you find someone fully aligned from the start.

Compromise doesn’t actually make relationships work, it just makes people resentful.

To be clear: I actually met my hubby on Tinder so I know for a fact that you can meet someone aligned online, but I love this trend of Gen Z not settling for crappy matches on apps and going where they’re likely to meet someone who’s a match.

If you want the exact dating profile I used to attract an amazing match online and the exact words that make your profile only attract relationship ready men, comment PROFILE and I’ll send it to you.

And if you want to meet your person IRL but feel like you’re blocked and no one asks you out in person,
comment 333 and I’ll send you my freaky accurate dating block quiz that reveals the subconcious reason you’re not meeting the right man IRL.

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08/22/2026

Oh how I just wish I had I learned about this sooner…

I used to think getting a man to step up meant trying to make him want me more.
So I’d do things like pretending I didn’t care hoping he’d chase harder.
Or I’d become obsessed with looking better because I thought if I looked attractive enough, he’d give me more effort.

None of that actually worked and honestly all that insecure energy just made men pull away more.

Because men who actually want commitment are paying attention to something way deeper:
The way you speak.

How a woman speaks to a man directly impacts how he FEELS around her.
And how he feels around you determines whether he wants to go all in and give more or whether he starts pulling away.

If you want a man to meet your needs, it all comes down to HOW you ask.

Ask from needy little girl energy and he immediately feels pressure and starts resisting.
Speak like a feminine Queen and he feels your self respect and wants to step up.

This is the part most two men are never taught:
There are certain ways of speaking to a man that make him feel respected, appreciated and masculine.
And when a man feels that around you, he doesn’t want distance.
He wants to do more.

When I learned how to speak to a man’s ego, his heart and the part of him that naturally wants to lead, without betraying myself or pretending I didn’t have needs, everything changed.
He started opening up more.
Putting in more effort.
Doing things for me before I even had to ask.

Not because I was forcing it.
Because being around me felt good.
My words made him want to rise for me.

✨Comment 5 for the exact 5 phrases that activate his devotion and make him want to give you everything OR dm me “5” and I’ll send it straight to you. 😉

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1️⃣ “I’m past the age of hoping someone will change or waiting for potential to turn into reality. I date people for who...
08/21/2026

1️⃣ “I’m past the age of hoping someone will change or waiting for potential to turn into reality. I date people for who they are right now, not who they could be.”
✨This tells him you’re not a fixer. You see him clearly as he is today, and you’re choosing based on that, not some fantasy version. He either rises to meet you or he doesn’t, and you’re ok either way.

2️⃣ “I’ve learned that how someone makes me feel is more important than how I feel about them. I’m open to a great connection, but I won’t lose myself or lower my standards to keep it.”
✨Shows you value yourself highly and that you won’t accept behavior lower than your standards just because you like him.

❤️Comment EFFORT for the text that makes him instantly step up his effort for you without you begging or forcing it but simply because he realizes you’re rare, emotionally safe and too good to lose.

3️⃣ “I trust my intuition more than I trust explanations. So if something feels off, I listen to that feeling instead of talking myself out of it.”
✨He understands you won’t ignore red flags or let him gaslight you. You’re connected to yourself, and that inner knowing can’t be manipulated. He has to show up with integrity or you’ll spot the inconsistency quickly.

4️⃣ “I give people the benefit of the doubt once, maybe twice. After that, I trust what they’ve already shown me more than what they’re promising to show me later.”
✨This shows you’re open but not foolish. He gets the chance to prove who he is, and after that you’re making decisions based on evidence, not hope. You won’t get stuck in the cycle of “this time will be different” because you respect yourself too much.

💌 Comment CLUB (or DM “club”) and I’ll send you the link to Secure Woman Club, where you’ll get 100+ secure responses for every dating trigger, audios for detachment and confidence, and your own AI Love Coach in your pocket so you always respond like the woman he can’t forget.

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08/18/2026

If he was acting really into you but then he pulled back or started giving you less, it’s not becusse he just woke up one day and realized he doesn’t like you.

It’s because THIS changed…

Understand: Men are selfish UNTIL they are emotionally hooked on you. (especially avoidant men)

Until it feels like THEIR idea to prioritize you, spoil you, take care of you, they’re not gonna do it no matter how much you give and give to them and try to prove you’re worth it.

Which is why the second you start acting needy or you use begging, forcing, demanding communication, he pulls back.

The KEY to unlocking a man’s devotion and getting him to see taking care of you as IN HIS SELF INTEREST?

It’s all in how you speak to him.

Because a woman’s words impact men way more than you even know.

Men absorb women’s words and let them impact their emotions, even if they don’t show it in the outside.

Now I can hear you saying:
But, I tried to get a man to act right before, I talked a LOT actually and it seemed like my words had no impact on him…

That’s because you spoke to him BEFORE you had emotional leverage with him.
You asked him to meet your needs BEFORE he, in his own mind, had come to see putting you first as in his own self interest.

Your words fell flat on him because he wasn’t emotionally invested enough in you yet
to see caring for your needs first as HIS choice, his self interest.

When a man is truly emotionally invested in a woman, when he sees taking care of her as his self interest, he will fall all over himself to meet her needs. She will only ever have to ask once, if at all.

There’s a way to speak to men that naturally activates them WANTING to put you first,
that makes taking care of you seem like it’s HIS idea, not yours,
that activates the King instinct in him to serve, provide, protect because he’s so emotionally invested in you that it just feels natural to treat you like a Queen.

I want to show you how to do that and I laid out the entire formula in Feminine Communication Queen.

Comment QUEEN and I’ll send it straight to you. (or DM the word “queen”) 👑

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