10/03/2026
I learned to follow before I learned a single dance step. 👀
Before I became a dancer, my dad took ballroom classes at Arthur Murray. Every so often, I tagged along to his dance parties as a guest. 🪩
From the side of the floor he’d say, “Okay, this song is a cha-cha,” and count it out for me: “Two, three, four and one...” 🎶
I was a musician, so I got it right away.
Then he’d put my arms up in frame and tell me to “tone up.”
I didn’t really know what that meant, but he liked what I did. 😅
“Okay, that’s all you need. Now go follow a leader.”
And off I went. 💃
Nothing about it was good teaching, but it turned out to be an accidental gift. 🎁
I learned connection implicitly, not explicitly. It only worked because I happened to be a musician with an athlete’s body awareness.
For most dancers, connection isn’t that intuitive. 🧠
It takes a specific kind of body awareness and coordination that most people never get a chance to build before they start partner dancing.
I don’t want to scare you, but connection is a complex skill. It takes years to build and fine-tune. ⏳
That’s also one of the best parts of West Coast Swing. ✨
The more you train it, the better you understand your connection tools, and the more fun you can create with them.
So whenever you get a chance to learn more about connection, take it.
It’s your golden ticket. 🎟️
👇 What do you remember about the first time you learned anything about connection in WCS? Tell me below!