Mindful-Muslimah

Guys…it’s unattractive.
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Men respond better to touch. They are less talkers.
Speak their language and you can get your point across.
You're welcome.

*Disclaimer: This does not include harmful or abusive situations

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Most attractive muscle on a man is the frontal lobe fully developed.

Yeah, women are not looking for abs anymore.
They're looking for accountability.
They don't care how tall you are.
If you can't regulate your emotions, those days are done.

Nothing is more attractive to them than someone who can pause, think, and not ruin everyone's night with an impulsive decision.

Okay, emotion regulation.
That's hot now.

Okay, self awareness, basically insane.

You know, a man who can say, yeah, that, that was my fault and not pass out immediately after elite.

Okay, you could have a six pack, but if you can't communicate, you're just decorative now.

Yeah, she doesn't need biceps.
She, she needs follow through.

Bonus points if he doesn't text you up at 11:47pm on a Tuesday.

On frontal lobe is doing the heavy lifting.
Decision making, impulse control, respect.
That's the real muscle she cares about nowadays.

If you're emotionally stable, mentally present, and know when to shut up, she probably doesn't even care if you work out anymore.

The delusion continues…. 😅
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When Allah SWT heals you this time… don't run back to what destroyed you.
It’s hard not to, I know…

Cause ya see… that wasn't just a lesson, it was mercy.
Okay, you didn't survive all that just to prove you're nostalgic. Okay, God didn't pull you out so you could circle back and say, “maybe it wasn't that bad.”

It was, that's why you prayed for Allah SWT to get you out of there.
Yes, you know, we love asking for healing and then, you know, we miss the chaos once peace feels quiet.

Yes, but peace is quiet on purpose.
And double yes, you didn't lose it, you were released from it.
That's not a suggestion, that's instruction.

All right, because healing is incomplete if you keep romanticizing what broke you. Okay, so yeah, when Allah SWT heals you this time, don't go back:
- out of boredom
- out of loneliness
- out of curiosity
..because if he brought you through it once, he expects you to know better now.

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Never say… why me
Say What is Allah SWT trying to teach me?
Because there’s often hidden wisdom in it.

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