02/04/2025
We met on the first day I went to Syracuse. Freshman year. I kept bumping into this woman every place I would go, the book store, the street, orientation, the coffee shop, it was on our 5th encounter that we finally said, oh my god, we need to introduce ourselves.
She was dressed so cool in a red Norma Kamali cape, jeans, sexy boots, and a really great vibe.
Her name was Lisa Krooth.
It was the beautiful start of a 44 year friendship.
Lisa was my friend, my soul sister, my confidant, someone who loved me, and believed in me. Our friendship took us through many years of experiencing life together, celebrations, heartache, pain.
She lived out west in Santa Fe, New Mexico. She is a beautiful soul. She was a lawyer, who then worked for legal aid, always wanting to help those in need and humanity. She wasn't into materials or stuff, yet, man, did that girl know how to shop.
She had amazing taste and a sense of style like no other. Artsy with a Buddha vibe, yet chic and hip. She was really ahead of her time in the way she dressed and wrapped her scarves around her head.
Each home was filled with light and love and art. She brought a beautiful daughter into the world; Bella. She was an amazing mother. She gave Bella a life of values, strength, and what it means to have courage.
I visited them every year for Christmas and to celebrate Lisa's birthday on New Year's Eve. They weren't my family by blood, but they were my family by choice.
Our relationship over the years was very complicated at times, but we never gave up on one another. Sometimes we needed the space to come back stronger, as friends, as two souls sharing from the heart, and holding boundaries for what was right for each other.
There were times I called her at 3 in the morning, and there were times she called me at that hour.
She was that person.
For me and for her.
I valued so much what I learned from her. She studied abroad in Tibet in the Himalayas with the Dolly Lama. Her spirituality transcended space and time. Her wisdom was so deep and wise and loving.
Lisa gave from the heart, always. She was so generous, not only to me, but to those around her and her community. She loved her family so much, through the good and the challenging.
I will miss her, and just today on my walk outside to the water, by my feet, there was a purple feather right on the street. I couldn't help but smile in my heart, as they say, when feathers appear, angels are near.
Lisa, my dear friend, I will love you always and forever, rest in peace.
Love,
Betsy Sue.
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