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11/24/2025

Beautifull (wo-)men compared to demanding 3D graphics cards in PC's
Detailed Comparison Points
1. High-Resolution Attractiveness Demands More Power
Graphics Card:
A game running on ultra-high settings with complex 3D rendering and ray tracing needs a massive amount of computational power, pushing the GPU close to its max limit (e.g., your 100W maximum). This is the cost of running the best visual experience.

Relationship: A person who is exceptionally beautiful, smart, rich or powerful (high "3D and eye candy settings, smooth performance") can exert a strong, almost magnetic pull on someone. The initial attraction is so strong that the admirer is willing to invest a disproportionate amount of emotional energy and attention—the "cost" of experiencing that visual appeal.

2. The Cost of Dealing with "Poor Performance"
Graphics Card: When the high-performance GPU is used for intense tasks, it consumes energy and generates heat. If the cooling system is poor or the card is inefficient, this energy is wasted as heat, leading to poor overall system performance.

Relationship: A beautiful person who is also toxic, gaslights, or is not a nice person represents a massive inefficiency or negative output. While the input (the visual attraction) is high, the output (the relationship's emotional return) is negative. The admirer's life energy is consumed by dealing with the emotional turbulence, arguments, and negative behaviour, effectively draining their "wattage."

3. The Exit Strategy
Graphics Card: If a high-end card is performing poorly (high heat, crashes), it's a huge system liability. It's harder to just ignore or remove because the user has invested money in the best-looking performance.

Relationship (The beautiful but toxic woman): The strong physical attraction makes it incredibly difficult for the guy to "let go sooner." The brain keeps processing the beautiful "eye candy" despite the high emotional "wattage" drain from the toxicity. The visual appeal acts like a very sticky anchor.

Relationship (The less attractive woman): If the initial visual "settings" are lower, the emotional anchor is much weaker. If she proves to be emotionally draining, the guy has a lower initial investment to overcome, making it much easier to "pull the plug" (end the relationship) because the cost-benefit analysis quickly favours leaving.

In summary, you've created a parallel where Physical Attractiveness = Energy Input/Draw, and Negative Personality Traits = Emotional Waste/Drain. Both lead to high consumption of a finite resource—electrical power for the GPU, and life energy for the person.

11/13/2024

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08/03/2024

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03/24/2024

Think back, backtrack what they said, did. U will learn to spot cluster B's You might want to try the Facebook group, where the members get it, where you are not alone. They have been there, are survivors with healing tips and 'trikcs'.
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12/24/2023

Dear brave souls,

In this time of year, when the lights twinkle and the scent of pine forests fills the air, we find ourselves surrounded by festive joy and warmth. Christmas and New Year’s are times of togetherness, celebrations, and hope for many. But for some among us, it’s not that straightforward.

For those who have become victims of psychopaths and sociopaths, these planned festivities can be a bittersweet reminder of what once was. The smiling faces, the gifts, understanding family and friends, the lavish dinners – they can feel like a stark contrast to the darkness they’ve endured.

Yet even for these individuals, these days are simply that: days. No special meaning, no joy, just a calendar-labeled period in time. Christmas, originally meant for Christians, has a date influenced by a historical deal struck with pagans, the months somewhat askew. New Year’s, shaped by commerce, is essentially a universal given.

Let us show empathy for those wrestling with their emotions during these holidays. Let us acknowledge that not everyone shares the same experience, and some may simply want to survive rather than celebrate. Let’s surround them with kindness, compassion, and a listening ear. And yes, let’s emphasize that these are “learned” sentiments, while EVERY DAY COUNTS and offers new opportunities.

So, as the world dresses in festive colors, let’s not forget that not all hearts beat the same. Let us stand strong together, regardless of how we perceive these days. Because sometimes, the only gift we truly need is understanding.

Memories are no guarantee of tomorrow; create new ones according to your own desires, not dictated by imposed dates. I wish you all health, learning, humor, perspective, and blessings every single day, whether it’s called Christmas or New Year’s – simple and fundamental.

11/20/2023

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05/30/2022

More recent theories of narcissism (e.g., the status pursuit models of narcissism) suggest the desire for social status motivates narcissistic behavior, particularly in grandiose narcissism.

Indeed, narcissists show keen attention to cues related to status and position, constantly seeking situations that could afford them a higher status. In such situations, narcissists skillfully engage in self-promotion and self-enhancement. But if these behaviors are unsuccessful (or likely to be unsuccessful) they engage in derogating and devaluing the competition. In short, narcissists use different techniques to increase their own status and/or decrease others’ status.

The Social Dynamics of Narcissism
Whether narcissists get under people’s skin depends partly on the social context. Social context could encourage the expression and acceptability of certain narcissistic behaviors. To illustrate, a narcissist giving a speech at a rally or a business meeting can say grandiose things that would not be acceptable if she were talking to people at a party.

In general, when we meet narcissists for the first time, we are more aware of the agentic aspects of narcissism (e.g., the narcissist coming across as self-assured and assertive). Only in the more intimate interactions (friendships, romantic relationships) do narcissists’ antagonistic tendencies (e.g., fighting, bullying, abusive behavior) become pronounced.
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07/02/2021

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04/22/2020

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04/22/2020

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04/03/2020

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