MakeLoveNotPorn

09/16/2026

We email our members 3 times a week - on Fridays, with all the brand new love that's been shared with us that week, and on Sundays and Wednesdays, themed video collections.

Today's member email celebrates what we all love in the real world, that you wouldn't know if you were getting your education from somewhere else.

We're building a whole new vocabulary for this, to reshape the way people think.

If this is talking your language, join us 🙏 💖

09/07/2026

At MakeLoveNotP**n we invite our members to let us know what they are especially interested in seeing in a real world context, and our Curation team can then make video recommendations.

Today, a member tells us they have a thing for older women, with C-section scars.

They endearingly added, "I know it is maybe pretty weird, but maybe you have heard weirder."

After 14 years of operation, we've heard everything 😂 but we don't call it weird. I'm sharing this here because it reinforces a point I regularly make - MLNP showcases what people really find hot, desirable and attractive in the real world.

And that is not what social media tells us.

What makes you hot and desirable is you - your unique personality, character, traits, way of expressing yourself. And then your body is hot as hell just by virtue of being yours.

Here's to older women with C-section scars, whom this MLNP member finds hot as hell! 💖

09/04/2026

Today is World S*xual Health Day.

Yes, it's important enough that there is a *xualHealthDay.

At MakeLoveNotP**n + MakeLoveNotP**n Academy, we're building a lifelong s*x, love and relationships education ecosystem, to act as a global operating system for healthy human intimacy.

Our platforms are 100% human-curated to be the safest place on the internet.

No better way to commemorate today than to support our work and help us be able to continue it, when the tech, finance and business sectors try every day to shut us down.

Please join the Academy as a paid member to help fund our ability to operate: https://makelovenotp**n.academy/membership

Please subscribe to MLNP to do the same.

This platform will ban me if I link to my business. Please go to the site directly, and please make sure Safe Search is disabled, because Google et al are determined to ensure the world makes p**n, not love, by making us impossible to find 🙏

08/29/2026

I'm thrilled that my copy of Matteo Bergamini MBE and Amelia Fairney's 'Man Enough: How To Protect Boys From Online Misogyny' has just arrived at - I can't wait to read it! Buy it here: https://amzn.to/4x1JFgX

And I'm even more thrilled that you can now download Matteo and Amelia's free conversational guide for parents on MakeLoveNotP**n Academy, 'Shout Out UK vs The Manosphere', here 😍 https://makelovenotp**n.academy/contents/314

Parents, do download the free guide and do share the link with your parent/teacher/school groups (everything on MLNP Academy is quickly and easily shareable from the 'Share It' button) 💖

08/27/2026

This horrifying news out of Australia is why my and Samantha Niblett MP's campaign to integrate lifelong s*x education into the UK systemically and culturally and to create a model that can be emulated by other countries, is so critically important - see our message here: https://www.yess*xpleasewerebritish.com/ and write to us at education@yess*xpleasewerebritish.com.

It is also why it is literally criminal that MakeLoveNotP**n struggles for funding and support to this day. That includes MakeLoveNotP**n Academy, our global aggregator hub for the best of the world's s*x education - a concept I came up with 11 years ago but have also struggled to get funded.

Together, MLNP and MLNP Academy make up a lifelong love, s*x and relationships learning ecosystem that functions as the global operating system for healthy human intimacy.

Look at the news coming out of Australia, and the headlines all around you, and tell me that isn't needed as badly as every few-months-old AI startup both male and female VCs are falling over themselves to fund (while AI is increasing this issue exponentially with the explosion of intimate image abuse and s*xualized deepfakes).

I started the Academy, because the educational resources that enable parents, teachers, schools, children and young people to counter this, are being blocked, censored and de-platformed every day - on platforms like this one, where I confidently predict this post of mine will be algorithmically suppressed. (Please like and re-post 🙏 )

The brilliant Heather Corinna and Giselle Woodley wrote what I consider the definitive educational resource on choking for Heather's superb teen s*x ed site Scarleteen - the OG of online s*x ed (27 years old!). Read it here: https://www.scarleteen.com/read/s*x-s*xuality/breathe-risks-realities-safer-choking-breath-play

And ask yourself: when Mark Zuckerberg and the rest of the Silicon Valley tech bros thrive and make more and more money out of actively harming children, while those of us trying to help them, struggle to the extent we're not sure our businesses and our non-profits can actually survive - what does the future of humanity look like?

Watch this video by me on the homepage of MakeLoveNotP**n Academy, 'How To Talk To Young Children About S*x, P**n And Love', to see how simple and easy education can be at any age - the reason the Academy exists:

https://makelovenotp**n.academy/contents/168

Investors and philanthropists (we have a non-profit vehicle through our partnership with non-profit Inspire Access Inc.) who are motivated by this to act - please email cindy@makelovenotp**n.com.

Everybody, if you want to see all of this change, please support our work by becoming a paid Academy member here (we have several tiers for affordability): https://makelovenotp**n.academy/membership

08/13/2026

This is a deeply moving post by one of our MakeLoveNotP**nstars.

Find them on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/p/Db-5DbKG9eP/?img_index=1

08/06/2026

08/06/2026

Our MakeLoveNotP**n Academy August paid member newsletter is out!

The Academy is free for everyone of all ages to access, but if you believe in and want to support a better educational future for the world, please do join as a paying member (we have different tiers for affordability) here: https://www.makelovenotp**n.academy/membership to fund our ability to operate 🙏 and you'll receive our newsletter each month.

In our August newsletter:

- catch up on my and Samantha Niblett MP's 'Summer of S*x' campaign for lifelong s*x education for the UK

- Justin Hancock of BISH has a great range of resources for ages 14+, plus a discussion game called 'Talking S*x Ed' to help young people to talk to each about s*x and relationships

- Tasha Lawton is working on a new s*x education app and is looking for testers - help trial it!

- For adults, Lena Peak, MSW, CSE and Alison Theiss, MSc CSC ABS IFN provide help with reigniting the spark

- Know a teen (14-18) interested in becoming a s*xual health expert for their peers? There's still time to apply for Tara Jones' The Youth S*xpert Program, deadline August 17

- Dale McGleenon's Cyber Safety Guy newsletter is a must-subscribe for parents wanting up-to-the-minute information and practical advice to deal with what children may encounter online

- Ask any question you want in our 'Ask An Educator' forums, for all ages

And note at the bottom, 'This email was 100% human-curated and 100% human-written with love.'

As is our platform - 100% human-curated, 100% SFW. AI misinformation will never have any place at the Academy.

Also, when you join as a paid member, you have the opportunity to help shape the Academy by sharing with us what you would like to see - our head of community Ariél Martinez is on standby to chat with every Academy paid member who would like to learn more about our vision and plans, and feed in your own perspectives and input 💖

Join us here: https://www.makelovenotp**n.academy/membership

08/06/2026

Samantha Niblett MP and I are THRILLED to have Great British Brand John Lewis & Partners supporting our *xPleaseWereBritish Summer of S*x campaign to get all of Britain talking openly and healthily about s*x, to integrate lifelong s*x education systemically and culturally into the UK 😍

Together with Lucy Litwack of Coco de Mer London, in 2026 the great British high street knows how much the great British public welcomes a healthier attitude towards bringing better education, wellbeing, connection and relationships to all, and the role this plays in combatting stigma, secrecy and abuse 🙌

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07/24/2026

Hello Britain - the Summer of S*x is here!

Time to go loud and proud on talking about s*x openly, honestly, healthily and educationally with our campaign for lifelong s*x education, *xPleaseWereBritish 🙌

The Best of British is rallying around our campaign - thank you great British brands Coco de Mer London and John Lewis & Partners, for bringing s*x education to the high street and sponsoring our launch of the Summer of S*x on John Lewis's Oxford Street roof terrace garden on Wednesday 😍

Samantha Niblett MP and I encourage everyone to join us in eradicating shame, guilt, and embarrassment around talking about s*x, to help people be better educated, live happier and healthier lives, and communicate more effectively for better intimacy and connection.

When we do this, we also prevent bad actors using s*x as a weapon - because they thrive where shame, guilt, and embarrassment lives.

Thank you Lucy Litwack Coco de Mer London for hosting a great discussion and Q&A on Wednesday, and everyone who attended who committed to spreading the word and helping drive action 🙏

Samantha and I have been information-gathering; now that Parliament is on summer recess, Samantha will be meeting with more people and organisations to talk about s*x and lifelong s*x education: what’s working well, what needs to change, and how we’re going to get there.

What Samantha learns will help shape the speech she'll deliver in the Chamber of the House of Commons in the debate she secured -with cross party support- on the importance of lifelong s*x education integrated systemically and culturally into Britain, as well as shaping initial recommendations to Government. (Date TBC, early autumn and we'll confirm as soon as we know.)

We want everybody in Britain to be proud to say, “Yes s*x please, we’re British!” 🇬🇧 - and the avalanche of responses we've had already tells us the nation is ready for this! 💖

Go to YesS*xPleaseWereBritish dot com https://www.yess*xpleasewerebritish.com/ to tell us what YOU want to see, and how YOU are making this the Summer of S*x 🙏

1967 was the first Summer of Love. 1988 was the second Summer of Love. 2026 is the Summer of S*x! 👩‍❤️‍👨 👨‍❤️‍👨 👩‍❤️‍👩

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