Coach Matt Shamloo

“Are you like a motivational speaker or something?”

I’ve been getting this question a lot lately and the short answer is……No
I am not nor do I want to be. My goal isn’t to motivate people. My goal is to dig in and help clients get out of the mud and stop feeling stuck. To add more and get to where they want to be and feel. To understand why they are doing certain things, why they have certain beliefs and how they can achieve the goals they think are not possible unless they have 24/7 motivation.

The truth is…motivation is going to come and go. We will see bubbly quote’s online to “Live, Laugh Love”, David Goggins Videos, and other TikTok’s that are intended to spark instant emotion and make one feel motivated but then revert back to feeling like they did. We work together to break the biggest obstacle down into small objectives. For Football fans like myself, We’re going to run the ball down the field, a few yards here and there and “extend the chains” until we get to the Endzone and then we try to score again and so on! One step at a time.

I do have 4 spots left for FREE Discovery Calls next week so irf you are interested please comment below!

“Break the Cycle” perhaps my favorite saying. This is actually a song title from a band I loved back in High School. Breaking the cycle is something all of us must do if we want to level up. Our subconscious habits, beliefs and actions are a reflection of what life will look like for us going forward. Sadly cycles are harmful. Whether it’s an addiction, a pattern of bad choices or a routine of poor emotions. Until we break free of this cycle that holds us back…we can never truly go forward. What are some cycles you see in yourself or with others that holds them back?!

This review warmed my heart! I have room for 2 clarity sessions next week!

This is a small moment, but this is a moment that made me feel very prideful. I was in year
three of my business and I got my first Destination Wedding Inquiry for Puerto Rico! The fact that someone who was able to not only hire me at my normal rate but to hire me and pay
for my travel/lodging as well was a feeling of honor I never knew existed. I felt blessed, I
felt gifted. This was really the first sign of “I can do this.”

At that point I was laughed at for
starting a business. Not just any business that has a popular demand like a restaurant or
home service like landscaping or plumbing or electrical but something that had a specific
niche. A wedding videographer…..yeah they are already in low demand in the industry but
to start a business…I didn’t get much support if any!

In the beginning of any unpopular
risk, you will have many who doubt you. Many will think what you’re doing is delusional and you should “get a real job and be realistic.” It will be difficult, and it will hurt but if you can
push through and push for yourself and not for a loved one’s opinion/wish for you, you will
be able to live a life that makes you feel your best!

Are you someone who deep down wants
to start their own journey but is afraid to pull the trigger? Do you feel like you are not good
enough or not meant for great things? Allow me to help you get into the right frame to
become the person who is good enough to achieve those things! Next week I have 4 spots for FREE Clarity Sessions to brainstorm immediate actions we can take to where you’d like to be!

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Ever feel that you’re a mess?” Yeah I did too. Taking on too much work, had all these aspirations but didn’t know how to start. I felt like I was motivated but couldn’t take action or if I did take action it wasn’t structured and I just worked in circles.

It was when I finally had a system, a routine, a structure to get intentional. To be productive and to really make progress. A big problem about this was….I had to hit a real wall to bounce back the other way. What does that wall look like for you? How much pain do you have to suffer before you hit the wall?

Why go through the pain when you can get the help beforehand?!

Creating a productive system is possible for everyone! AND IT WILL BENEFIT EVERYONE.

Having a system where you can get work done in less time will allow you to enjoy all areas in life, your business and your personal life.

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With my wedding season starting later than usual this year, I would love to offer a helping hand to any Creative Business Owner looking to get more done in less time!

I’ve developed a system that has been working with top level creatives to take control of their workload without that consequence of burning out!

I had a client who was drowning in website projects. They felt like they were on a hamster wheel working hard but going nowhere. We did some deep diving and really narrowed down what is it they want, what they want to feel and the outcomes they want to experience! Since our start last year they’ve made significant progress in their time management and they have a great relationship with their partner and not to mention they are checking off the outcomes they desired!

If you are interested in getting these results I do have some availability for Free consultations this week to anyone open to having a quick conversation about your goals.

Be well 🤘🏽

I was working with a client and
She was mentioning how she feels she’s not getting the results she expects and hopes for with her business, in her romantic life and in her personal life. A small backstory…. She is in sales and is newly married to a good partner
I asked her “If you were to rate your everyday energy, the overall energy you live at (physically, emotionally, mentally) on a daily basis on a scale of 1-10, 1 being super depressed and 10 being in a peak state, where do you see yourself?” She told me “Some days a 4 and some days a 6.”
She mentioned that things were just not working out for her, things weren’t horrible but things were stale, not heading in the direction she wants. We began talking about her habits. We discussed what she wanted and the reasons she wanted them. Her closing sales rate dropped…
I asked her to imagine what she had to be and who she had to be for her to be considered a 10 in her eyes. I asked who they had to be to be a 4,6,8,9 and 10 in her eyes. Once we identified all those answers, things started to clear up for them.
How did all those levels show up? How did they move? Were they standing up straight? Were they slouched, did they talk fast or slow? How did they dress? What did they focus on?
The first thing we did was try and get her to a 7 on average for now and then escalate once we have momentum.
As people we all have different personalities, different ways of thinking and processing emotion and we all have different life experiences. But one thing is for sure, we all have different levels of how we can show up. We cannot control what happens to many things but we can control how we show up.
Do you show up as a 6 in your life? What does the level 10 version of you look like? What are differences in habits, in movements, in practices the 6 and the 10 take? What is the 10 capable of that the 6 isn’t?
If you believe you are living at a 10, do you want to associate most of your time with people at a 3? If you are at a 3, what are you chances at booking that couple that is a 10 during that sales call?
10 doesn’t mean you have to be a loud energetic MC to everyone, it just means you have to feel YOUR BEST SELF to YOUR STANDARDS

Always appreciate the love! Here’s a recent client! I have 3 spots for a free clarity session next week! Message me for more info!

At one point in my life, I had no idea what I was doing. I had no clue who I was or where I was going. I just went through the motions. Moved through life like a zombie. I will never forget driving a workout buddy home super late on a Wednesday night. He mentioned how he can make his own hours and really have control of his life. This shocked me. I had this belief that where you had to get lucky to have a life like that. I was conditioned to believe a standard job that wasn't exciting was just the way life was. I was excited to work in a cubicle or an office as I thought "I made it." Not to say now that type of career is awful but I thought it was the only "good" option. I am have never been so grateful to be wrong! More about my story coming in a video version next week!

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“You’re the average of the five people spend the most time with,” a quote spoken by speaker Jim Rohn. I 100 percent support this. I remember a time where I was not in the best place in life emotionally, physically and spiritually. I felt darkness, I had zero belief in myself and I just felt like a victim who was just done. One thing I realized was the people in my life were a big source of those feelings. I do not think they are bad people but I do believe they were not the right people for me. Since then I put myself in a variety of circles of people who do nothing but elevate my life. Spending time with them is the best feeling and the smallest activities such as dinner, a boardgames or just a talk in the pool have created such a cherished memory that I cannot find elsewhere. These people are going to be the best assets to your life in every way. Many of my friends now are fit, successful and established adults. Since aligning myself with them, my fitness has improved, I am more driven and I am happier. They didn’t force me to do anything but me respecting them, wanting to make them proud and wanting to not be the weakest link is what pushed me! “Iron sharpens Iron”

Five Health Benefits of Spending Time with Friends and Family | Road to Heaven Game Did you know there are health benefits of spending time with friends and family? It’s true! Here are five reasons you should spend more quality time together.