09/25/2026
What happens when the plan falls apart?
Sometimes, that’s when the best part begins.
In our latest episode of Assembling Community, Erica sits down with her husband, Rabbi Dmitry Ekshtut, to talk about Sukkot, community building, and the beauty of the unscripted moment.
They start with a Sukkot dinner more than a decade ago that was interrupted by a downpour (and ended with a marriage proposal!) and get into a bigger question: How do you prepare thoughtfully enough to be able to let go of the plan when the moment asks something different of you?
Give it a listen:
In this episode of Assembling Community, Erica sits down with her husband, Rabbi Dimitry Ekshtut, to revisit the rainy Sukkot night when a storm pushed thirty guests into their one-bedroom Harlem apartment, and he proposed. They talk about what changes when a carefully planned gathering falls apart,...