09/04/2026
Before you assume your preschooler âwasnât interestedâ⌠watch what they do next. đ
I gave my son glue, his name, and scraps of paper. The activity was simple: glue the pieces onto the letters of his name.
Except he had other plans. đ
He grabbed the glue, found another piece of paper, started collecting materials and decided to make his own creation.
And I let him.
my mom brain was annoyed for a sec that he âquitâ my activity.
My teacher brain was watching his wheels turn.
He took something I introduced and thought, Wait⌠what else can I do with this?
And hereâs the part I wish more parents knew:
Most of the time, when kids take an activity in a completely different direction, theyâre STILL practicing the skill you wanted them to practice⌠and then some.
He was still squeezing the glue bottle â hand strength + fine motor control.
Still picking up and placing small materials â pincer grasp + hand-eye coordination.
But now he was ALSO planning, making decisions, experimenting, problem-solving, creating and following through on an idea that came entirely from his own brain.
He didnât stop learning.
He took the learning further.
Same thing when you make a masking-tape road and they decide to start building their own.
Or you put out blocks for a specific building challenge and suddenly theyâre constructing something completely different.
Or the counting bears you set out for math suddenly have names, families, houses and an entire complicated backstory. đ
It can feel like:
Cool. So I spent 20 minutes setting that up for absolutely no reason.
But I want you to start looking at it differently.
Your activity may have been the invitation. Their idea is where the learning went next.
Because following directions is a skill.
But so is having an idea no one gave you.
So is figuring out how to make it work.
So is changing your plan when it doesnât.
And THOSE are the skills I really donât want us accidentally shutting down because weâre too focused on getting preschoolers to complete an activity exactly the way we pictured it.
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