04/05/2021
Temons Skipa Fox aka Miss P
March 11, 1997-April 4, 2021
As far as horse lifetimes go, our journey together was incredibly short. My dear friend and your guardian, Vic, bred you in the hopes you would deliver another baby like Free. I picked you up and brought you to Texas in November 2016. April 7, 2017 you gave birth to a beautiful baby boy, TeRado (known by his fans as Te). His playfulness and mischievousness brought laughter to many a human-particularly when that orneriness would send Dally running. (The divine Miss P carried herself like royalty, but over the course of time, I began to see that much of the playfulness was inherited from her.) With the first baby, we had so much fun. You were able to help me teach him road trips are not scary. Watching you with TeRado, I was able to see what REAL power looked like. In the Master Herder and Power of the Herd work I do, we talk about true power. I thought I understood, but when I witnessed you exercise your power, I learned I don’t have a clue.
As time went on and we became more comfortable with each other, your expressiveness could both amuse and frustrate me. There was no questioning your opinion. You taught me the art of negotiation.
The original plan had been to return you to Oklahoma after TeRado was weaned. Vic and I talked about it and decided to see if we could get one more foal from you. I spoke with your vet, the pros and the cons were weighed, and we decided to go for it. The first year we had 3 failed breeding attempts. The next breeding season I swore it was going to be a one and done. After another failure, I sent the records to the breeder to get her opinion. Kathy St. Martin couldn’t see any reason why you weren’t with baby, so the decision was made to take you to Oklahoma. Kathy had you bred in the first attempt.
As I tell the story, it rings in my ears almost as cruelty with all the tried and failed breeding attempts. God had a plan.
A dear friend of mine, Marissa Watkins, wanted to go to Oklahoma with me. Avalon Equine has a stallion she had been admiring and she wanted to meet. During the six-hour trip we covered everything from personal experiences to spiritual matters. As a result of this trip, Jim and I found our new church family.
Maitearen Milagre came into our world May 11, 2020. He was ½ again bigger than his brother, and this time you needed help with the delivery. You were very clear when you wanted me to stand back, then very clear when you needed me to step in and help. The difficult delivery and the week at Texas A&M with your foal, set you up for a tough year. Abscess after abscess. All the soaking, the oils, the poultices…I learned more than I ever wanted to know about managing a horse with abscesses.
All in all, this was a blessing. With all the fear being sown and received around COVID-19, you and Maitearen provided the perfect distraction from all the chaos. The church body you helped me find, also aided in my COVID-fear-free zone. For the first time in many years, my walk with God was strong. I had moved from being lukewarm, to on fire for Him.
January 15, 2021 we moved you to our new home. There was one more round of abscesses in both front feet, then you were doing incredibly well. The extra space was doing you a world of good. Your front feet were starting to look more normal, your heels were starting to open up, you were walking around soundly, barefoot, for the first time in a long time. Then last Monday, it became evident you had developed an abscess in your right hind foot. I soaked your foot, increased pain management and by the time the vet arrived on Thursday, you were looking fabulous-like you had made it to the other side. Then a flip switched and I knew it was time.
There could not have been a more perfect set-up to let you go. Dr. Aimee Beckham, your friend, was able to come help you (and me) let go. Todd and Debbie Deering, members of our precious church family came and created the perfect resting place for you. How appropriate that the dear sweet horse who brought me back to God, was laid to rest on the day it was discovered He had risen.