Empathy in Action

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Empathy in Action provides inside-out educational exchanges to the public.

06/07/2026

It is my honor and joy to welcome home Victor Tovar! He reached out and shared his thoughts on the work we’ve done together and how Empathy in Action impacted his healing journey.

Meet Victor…

I was arrested at the age of 16. I was charged as an adult and sentenced to 37 years to life plus 35 years.At the time the justice system looked at my actions and what was wrong with me. I was in a gang and I was violent but nobody asked what happened to me.

I came from an abusive child hood my father was in and out of my life he was abusive physically verbally and emotionally. My mother wasn't nurturing.i found a false sense of love in the street and I joined a gang i ramped up my violence to prove my worth because I didn't value myself.i was uncertain about everything. I needed someone else to decide for me.

When I came to prison I was still in the gangs I had no hope for the future..In 2014 the youth offender law passed S.B 260..it gave me a little bit of hope i signed up for groups and I just wanted the credit I wanted to manipulate the system..I began hearing stories of people who were abused like me and I began to listen.I wasn't alone.i realized then I couldn't manipulate myself..I went from a level 4 to level 3 and i made it to a level 2..

Fast forward 2019..I met an amazing woman named Megan McDrew..I then started to strive to get my AA degree…she was my sociology teacher. Her spirit was encouraging, her energy was gravitating and her heart was empathetic..

Then, Covid stopped the world. In prison all groups got cancelled no visitors no nothing. It didn't stop Megan from continuing her passion or coming to see us when she could. In 2023 a group was announced to sign up called Empathy in Action created by Megan. I wasn't surprised but rather, grateful for someone like Megan that saw the humanity in us. She brings people from the outside who have never been to prison and see a different perspective. Brings EMPATHY.

I joined the group in 2025 yes the waiting list was that long. People come from different walks of life. When we talk in the circles we realize we are similar because we are all humans, Megan understands that. I love that about her. Me and Megan have been in contact..at the time i had Parole Board in January 2026..I was found suitable for parole. I been out since May this year.

Megan lives and breaths love, kindness and empathy. I'm blessed to have her as a friend.

06/06/2026

As my charitable nonprofit, the Transformative Justice Center, and our flagship program, Empathy in Action, continue to grow and receive more attention, I wanted to take a moment to introduce myself and share a little of the story behind this work.

My name is Megan McDrew, and for the last 13 years, I’ve been going inside California state prisons—first as a volunteer, then as a sociology instructor, and now as the founder of the Transformative Justice Center and creator of Empathy in Action.

Every week, year-round, I bring members of the public into prison with me. Together, we sit in circles with incarcerated men and women to build bridges of empathy, accountability, healing, and hope. What began as a volunteer experience eventually became a calling. Today, it feels as natural to me as raising my children, practicing yoga, or spending time outdoors.

I was raised in suburban Walnut Creek, in a predominantly white, middle-class community. I followed the expected path: get good grades, play sports, go to college. But even while I was checking all the boxes, I felt restless. I craved a different kind of life—one filled with adventure, meaning, service, and deeper questions.

After college, I took off.

I walked the Camino de Santiago across Spain alone. I joined the Peace Corps and helped build a library and community center in a rural Moroccan village. I earned a master's degree in international peace and development in Spain and later completed a second master's degree in sociology at Humboldt State University.

Along the way, I discovered yoga, which became a lifelong spiritual practice and source of grounding. More than twenty years later, I now teach yoga inside prison, one of the greatest joys of my life.

One of my most transformative experiences came while living for nearly a year in a remote Indian ashram in the Himalayas. There, I meditated daily, lived simply, and explored questions of purpose, suffering, and service. I fell deeply in love with India and the contemplative life, but I also realized I was too independent and too curious to follow anyone else's path completely.

Eventually, it was time to come home.

Back in California, I tried to settle into what many would consider a successful life. I accepted a stable job at the University of San Francisco with benefits, retirement, and security. I was thirty-two years old and thought perhaps it was finally time to become a proper adult :) But something inside me felt disconnected...

Then life unraveled...My mother, my best friend, greatest supporter, and fiercest protector, was diagnosed with aggressive lung cancer and died shortly thereafter. My wedding, scheduled just weeks later, was cancelled. The future I thought I was building disappeared almost overnight.

During that season of grief, a friend posted about volunteering inside San Quentin through a program called GRIP. I signed up immediately.

I had no idea that decision would change the course of my life.
The first time I stepped into prison in 2013, I was afraid. Like many people, I had absorbed the narrative that those inside were dangerous, broken, or beyond redemption. But within hours of meeting incarcerated men face-to-face, those assumptions began to dissolve.

What emerged instead was clarity.

For the first time, I felt I had found the place where I was supposed to be.

Since that day, I have rarely gone a week without stepping foot inside a prison or jail. Ironically, it was within those cold concrete walls that I came alive.

When you enter a prison, you encounter people whose identities have been reduced to a crime, a conviction, or a label. Murderer. Gang member. Felon. But behind every label is a human story—often shaped by trauma, abuse, addiction, poverty, neglect, violence, and systemic failure.

I began to see incarceration differently.

Our society is like a web—interconnected and fragile. Those who fall through its holes are often the most vulnerable among us. Yet rather than repair the web, we tend to warehouse the people who have been damaged by it and pretend they no longer belong.

As Bryan Stevenson writes, the true measure of justice is how we treat the poor, the disfavored, the accused, the incarcerated, and the condemned.

His work inspired me. But I wanted to go beyond understanding the problem. I wanted to be part of creating a solution.

So I created Empathy in Action.

Empathy in Action is an inside-out program where healing happens through connection rather than punishment. Volunteers and incarcerated individuals come together weekly to discuss trauma, accountability, forgiveness, courage, justice, healing, and hope. We build family circles. We listen deeply. We tell the truth. We practice being human together.

What started as a simple idea has grown into something much larger than I ever imagined.

Today, through Empathy in Action and the Transformative Justice Center, we have brought more than 700 community members inside prison walls.

We have expanded into multiple prisons, launched programs for incarcerated women, developed reentry support services, created yoga and healing initiatives inside prison, produced an award-winning documentary, and built a community dedicated to transformation rather than punishment.

Most importantly, I have watched men and women come home.
I have seen people released after decades of incarceration reunite with families, find employment, pursue education, mentor others, and build beautiful lives rooted in purpose and service.

The lesson has been simple but profound: People change when they are given the opportunity to heal, to be accountable, and to belong.

This work has changed me too.

There have been moments of exhaustion, heartbreak, loneliness, and doubt. Grants denied. Funding shortfalls. Volunteer shortages.

Personal struggles that few people saw. Times when I questioned whether I had anything left to give.

But every time I considered stepping away, I remembered the faces of the people inside waiting for us to show up. So I packed my bag, put on my Empathy in Action shirt, and went back.

Again and again.

Who am I?

I am a mother, daughter, teacher, friend, yogi, athlete, traveler, and relentless believer in the power of human connection.

I don't claim to have many answers, but I know a few things are true....It is never too late; One moment of love can alter the trajectory of an entire life; People are more than the worst thing they have ever done; AND Healing is possible.

And in the end, I don't think we will measure our lives by our titles, accomplishments, followers, or bank accounts. We will measure them by how deeply we loved, how courageously we forgave, and how willing we were to serve others.

For many years this path felt lonely.

Today, it feels different.

There is now a growing community of volunteers, incarcerated leaders, returning citizens, students, donors, partners, and friends walking beside me. Together, we are proving that empathy is not weakness. It is one of the most powerful forces for personal and social transformation.

Everything I've done—every mountain climbed, every country explored, every heartbreak endured, every prison entered, every person loved—has prepared me for this work.

If you believe that people are more than the worst thing they've ever done; if you believe healing is possible; if you believe bridges are stronger than walls; if you believe love belongs everywhere, including the places our society has forgotten, I invite you to join us.

Volunteer. Donate. Visit. Learn. Share.

Let's build a world rooted not in fear and punishment, but in empathy, accountability, service, and love.

As Howard Thurman once wrote: "Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive."

This work has made me come alive.

I hope you'll join us.

Love always,
Megan

www.transformativejusticecenter.org

Vote for the Best 06/05/2026

Fellow travelers,

If you believe in the work we are doing in the Transformative Justice Center and Empathy in Action, please vote today as we are up for BEST new business in Monterey...the voting closes in 17 hours (11:59pm). Thank you!

https://bea.montereychamber.com/category

With gratitude for the journey,
Megan and all of us inside, and out.

Vote for the Best Cast your vote for the finest in the Monterey Peninsula.

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org 06/03/2026

This is a BIG week for the Transformative Justice Center.

We have just 2 days left to be voted Monterey's Best New Business:

https://bea.montereychamber.com/category/13253/new-business-of-the-year

And we have until Friday to complete our $5,000 Summer Prisoner Match Challenge. We're halfway there!

Yesterday, I was inside prison with the men who created this match. They are incredibly hopeful and excited that we've already reached 50% of the goal. Now we're asking our community to help us finish strong.

Your support helps cover:

• TJC rent and operations
• Required insurance for prison programming
• Empathy in Action summer program costs

This is our final match of the year.

Please vote. Please donate if you can. And please help us show the men inside that their faith in this community is well placed.

Donate here:

https://www.every.org/the-transformative-justice-center/f/the-summer-freedom-match

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org "The Empathy in Action program changed us, and we will back it with what little we have." These are the words of a a small group of incarcerated men inside prison who just challenged the outside world to care as deeply about them as they care about us. It can take a lifetime to save $5,000 behind ba...

Vote for the Best 06/03/2026

EVERYONE! IF I’VE EVER NEEDED YOUR HELP, IT’S NOW!

The Transformative Justice Center has been nominated for Best New Business of the Year through the Monterey Chamber of Commerce… and somehow we are up against the Marriott Hotel 😅

A tiny grassroots nonprofit built on empathy, healing, second chances, prison education, reentry support, yoga, storytelling, and human connection… competing with major corporations. Honestly? That feels pretty beautiful.

If the TJC has impacted you, inspired you, challenged you, supported you, or given you hope in any way — please take 30 seconds to vote for us today.

We have just 3 days left!

Every vote helps amplify a movement that believes: people are more than the worst thing they’ve done healing belongs to everyone community can transform lives love and accountability can exist together

Let’s shock some people and beat the Marriott 😂

VOTE HERE:
https://bea.montereychamber.com/.../new-business-of-the-year

Please share if you can. We truly couldn’t do this without community.

Vote for the Best

06/02/2026

Empathy in Action is honored to host a birthday party for the most spectacular person, Carlos Campaz! Carlos is about as authentic and kind as they come. He spent 2 decades in prison and has since been nothing but an asset to this community and the community inside CTF Soledad.

All friends of Carlos are welcome at his party on June 13. We hope to see lots of volunteers and friends at Lovers Point!

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org 05/30/2026

Happy weekend, friends!

We are officially halfway there!

So far, our Summer Freedom Match Campaign for the Transformative Justice Center and Empathy in Action has raised $2,250 toward our $5,000 goal by June 4 and I’m feeling incredibly grateful.

Every dollar supports transformational programming inside prison walls:

• Empathy in Action summer cohorts
• Books and educational materials
• Healing-centered dialogue and workshops
• Volunteer training and support
• Reentry and human connection initiatives

This work reminds people , both inside and outside prison, that they are still human, still worthy, and still capable of growth and healing.

If you’ve already donated, thank you deeply. If you’ve been meaning to give, now is the perfect time to help us cross the finish line. Even small donations truly add up.

Donate here: https://www.every.org/the-transformative-justice-center/f/the-summer-freedom-match

Please share if this resonates with you. ❤️

“Change the way we see and the things we see change.”

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org "The Empathy in Action program changed us, and we will back it with what little we have." These are the words of a a small group of incarcerated men inside prison who just challenged the outside world to care as deeply about them as they care about us. It can take a lifetime to save $5,000 behind ba...

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org 05/29/2026

"The Empathy in Action program changed us, and we will back it with what little we have."

These are the words of a a small group of incarcerated men inside prison who just challenged the outside world to care as deeply about them as they care about us.

It can take a lifetime to save $5,000 behind bars. And they are giving every dollar of it away, not for themselves, but for us. For this community. For healing that reaches beyond the walls.

They have the least. They're giving first. Will you match the men who are matching you?

We are working to raise $5000 in 6 days now - yesterday, thanks to the very generous donations of a few individuals, we raised $2100! We are almost half way there.

Thank you to those who support this work...because of you, we continue to keep the doors to the TJC open and Empathy in Action thriving!

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org "The Empathy in Action program changed us, and we will back it with what little we have." These are the words of a a small group of incarcerated men inside prison who just challenged the outside world to care as deeply about them as they care about us. It can take a lifetime to save $5,000 behind ba...

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org 05/28/2026

Exciting news!! We have another match from inside the prison! We have 7 days to make it happen - by June 4th!

This summer, with the help of our community, we are launching another 8-week cycle of Empathy in Action inside CTF Soledad, bringing together incarcerated individuals and community volunteers for honest dialogue, healing, accountability, education, and human connection.

Every week, men inside prison and people from the outside sit together as equals...reading, reflecting, listening, and sharing their stories. What emerges is something deeply human: empathy, transformation, and hope.

At the Transformative Justice Center, we believe people are more than the worst thing they’ve ever done. We believe healing communities begins by seeing each other fully.

Our Summer Freedom Match campaign will help fund:

• Books and curriculum materials
• Volunteer training and support
• Program expansion
• Reentry and healing resources
• TJC operational costs

And thanks to matching support, your gift goes even further.
If this work moves you, please consider donating or sharing. Every contribution helps build bridges between the incarcerated and the public.

Gentleness comes only from the strong.

Donate here: https://www.every.org/the-transformative-justice-center/f/the-summer-freedom-match

The Summer Freedom Match Campaign | Every.org A small group of incarcerated men inside prison just challenged the outside world to care as deeply about them as they care about us. It can take a lifetime to save $5,000 behind bars. And they are giving every dollar of it away — not for themselves, but for us. For this community. For healing tha...

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