10/22/2024
It’s such a strange time here in Western North Carolina. Helene ravaged these mountains, and it seems like life should stop for a little while to acknowledge and grieve what happened. Many of us who live here but didn’t suffer personal loss or damage are feeling survivor’s guilt and grief for our neighbors and our mountains. So, what do we do with it? Should we purposely avoid joy and normalcy for the sake of honoring those whose lives are lost or forever changed? It sure feels like we should. And yet, when we look at historic catastrophes, we admire those who fought for joy, life, and the future. The human spirit is designed to live in hope, to feel normal, to adjust in adversity. Throughout history, we find story after story of people who have survived unspeakable things with their hope in tact. Those stories are coming out from Helene now too.
So what do we do with that? Do we stop the world and feel sad, refuse to laugh or smile out of respect? Maybe we do sometimes. But maybe we also grab some hope to feed our spirits. Maybe we do something joyful, maybe we laugh to celebrate the lives lived here, and those living still. Maybe we need to have hope in order to keep going. The human spirit wasn’t designed to stay in hopelessness indefinitely. Should we pretend nothing happened and move on? Absolutely not! But maybe we should take time for both grief and hope. The point of the restoration work being done is to allow people to keep working, keep making memories, keep living. Even when it feels like life should stop, it doesn’t. It can’t. We can’t survive that way. We keep living, keep moving forward. We grieve and grieve. . . and we keep living. We need to do both. Let’s encourage grief and joy. Let’s help each other survive.