08/11/2026
"Feminists have long since pointed out that those on the bottom of any unequal social arrangement tend to think about, and therefore care about, those on top more than those on top think about, or care about, them.
Women everywhere tend to think and know more about men’s lives than men do about women, just as black people know more about white people’s, employees about employers’, and the poor about the rich."
- David Graeber
https://davidgraeber.org/articles/caring-too-much-thats-the-curse-of-the-working-classes/