10/08/2026
Children need permission to not like everyone.
They should never be taught that kindness means forced friendship, fake affection or staying close to someone who doesn’t feel right to them.
But they also need to learn that dislike is a feeling — not a license.
It doesn’t give us permission to mock someone, exclude them for sport, turn others against them, embarrass them or make them feel small.
We can step back without punishing. We can have boundaries without becoming cruel. And we can decide someone isn’t for us without deciding they deserve less dignity.
Because one of the clearest signs of character is not how we treat the people we adore.
It’s who we choose to BE, around the people that we don’t. ❤️