The Work with Judith

08/02/2026

"Reality is always kinder than what you are thinking and believing" — Byron Katie.
What is more stressful — reality, or what we believe about reality?I love Katie's invitation to notice the interpretations and assumptions that we put on reality (... and that means that...).
Questioning them has brought me more clarity, more peace, and better communication with the people around me.

Registration is open for my next 6-week online live course: Making Peace with Reality.
We'll meet in a small group on Sundays, August 30th through October 4th, at 5 pm Central Time, for 90 minutes each week. Together we'll use the Work of Byron Katie to identify and question the thoughts that cause us stress and suffering.

https://www.theworkwithjudith.com/service-page/making-peace-with-reality
Whether you're brand new to this or have been practicing for years, you're welcome here. No experience necessary — just an open mind. Joining a course can be a meaningful space for self-care!

05/09/2026

18.-21. Juni, ein Seminar für Frauen im wunderschönen Hotel Eden in Bad Krozingen, mit zertifizierten Begleiterinnen Heike Fischer und Judith Pfeiffer. https://resonanz-raum.de/.../tu-dir-gut-seminar-fuer-frauen

03/21/2026

Difficult Client eCourse, with certified facilitators Judith Pfeiffer and Sally Pamberger.

Starting April 13th, 2026 at 5:30pm PT, 7:30pm CT, 8:30pm ET

6 weekly 90 min classes on Zoom, partner pairing and homework in between classes. We will be using the curriculum developed by the Institute for the Work.

I'm so excited to be offering this Difficult Client eCourse together with Sally Pamberger! It's my favorite and just a wonderful journey to be questioning our intentions, agendas, and judgments that come up when we facilitate clients.

This course is a challenging course, designed for people experienced in the Work and experienced in facilitating clients in the Work of Byron Katie. Please consider filling out this form before signing up for the class to make sure this is the right fit. https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeR0LlNLuSULHZuHpBMVATQVsVd9i9XI66ScGphsR7Cb3KF6g/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=100705459435390532612

03/21/2026

Showing up is one of the simplest — and most powerful — gifts we can give our relationships. In just 2 minutes, Judith Pfeiffer breaks down why presence matters and how small, consistent acts of showing up build trust, care, and connection. Read more: https://wix.to/mEu1Cmb

Showing up in relationships means that you care about the relationship, your partner, and yourself!

03/16/2026

This is my first interview in the series about how to do the Work of Byron Katie with couples.
My hope is that more coaches -- and couples! -- become curious about the Work. It's such an amazing tool to use in any relationship! I've been using it in my work with couples for years and feel it's adding depth to other great tools, such as the Gottman Method or Terry Real's RLT.

Amel Arhab from Amazeer Coaching answers my question about the benefit of using the Work of Byron Katie in couples sessions. For more info about Amel Arhab:I...

03/16/2026

I'm excited to be selected another year by Top 3 Choices as one of the couples counselors (coaches) in Memphis.

I love working with couples! I use the Gottman Method, the Work of Byron Katie, different elements from Positive Psychology, as well as tool from RLT (Relationship Life Therapy).
I've always had such a passion for relationships and feel very honored to be working with couples.
https://threebestrated.com/marriage-counselors-in-memphis-tn

02/10/2026

Here is my new YouTube video. I talk about the power of showing up: showing up for your relationship, for each other, and for yourself can mean a lot. And it can take a lot! It can take openness, vulnerability, courage, and a willingness to look at the relationship and oneself.

In my experience, showing up can make all the difference! One example for showing up can be taking couples sessions.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uY0JjlgNY6E

01/16/2026

Start the new year with more self-compassion—not by "trying to be kinder," but by understanding the voice that isn’t. In this 7-week live online course, we’ll explore how harsh self-talk operates and how to question it using The Work of Byron Katie.

Registration is still open for Transforming Negative Self-Talk, starting this Sunday.

This is a reflective, experiential course for those willing to look closely at their thinking and discover what becomes possible when old beliefs are met with inquiry rather than force.

Seven live classes (recordings provided)

Dates: January 18 - March 1, 2026

Time: 5:00-6:30pm Central Time each Sunday (3-4:30pm PT, 6-7:30pm ET)

Format: Live interactive online sessions with recording access

Investment: $225 (scholarship available if needed)

From participants of my last class:

"I took a Negative Self Talk course with Judith and absolutely loved It. I wish I could do It every Sunday for the rest of my Life - It made my week better." M. C.

"It was my first time doing the Work, and Judith introduced me to it in the most gentle and loving way! I enjoyed every moment at her program and learned a lot. That was another wonderful tool for me to dive deep inside and find peace and acception. I’m very grateful ❤️" M. L.

https://theworkwithjudith.com/ -negative-self-talk

01/09/2026

Do you ever feel that your inner negative self-talk is holding you back? What would your life look like if you couldn't believe those thoughts anymore?

This 7-week course might be for you if you are
-curious to find a different way
-open to questioning your thinking
-willing to come to the seven 1,5h live online classes (10 participants max)
-interested in learning a tool to look into your own thinking (the Work of Byron Katie)

This is a course that’s close to my heart. It’s something I care deeply about, and a new round begins January 18th.

In this course, we’ll look together at negative self-talk from different angles. We’ll use The Work of Byron Katie to explore: how we react and feel believing our negative self-talk, where it comes from, how it shapes how we see ourselves, and what its role might be. We’ll gently inquire into the positive intention behind it, -- and who we would be and how our lives would be if without those thoughts.

7 live online classes on Zoom, Sundays from 3-4:30pm Pacific, 5-6:30pm Central Time, 1/18 through 3/1

https://www.theworkwithjudith.com/service-page/transforming-negative-self-talk

Strengthen your relationship with Judith, a certified Couples Coach specializing in The Work of Byron Katie and the Gottman Method. With over a decade of experience, Judith offers personalized coaching to help couples improve communication, rebuild trust, and navigate challenges for a deeper connect...

01/03/2026

This is a course that’s close to my heart. It’s something I care deeply about, and a new round begins soon.
In this course, we’ll look together at negative self-talk from different angles. We’ll use The Work of Byron Katie to explore: where it comes from, how it shapes how we see ourselves, and what its role might be. We’ll gently inquire into the positive intention behind it, -- and who we would be and how our lives would be if without those thoughts.

https://www.theworkwithjudith.com/service-page/transforming-negative-self-talk