11/16/2024
Here's the secret to classroom management and facilitating student behavior: if you don't show your "buttons"---students don't know which ones to push to trigger you or elicit an emotional response from you. If you have self-control, you don't reveal your "buttons" (triggers).
And if you don't have VISIBLE "buttons", your students can't use their behavioral responses to bait you into accepting the release of their frustrations on YOU---it slides right off.
Boom.
The more self-mastery and composure you have, the more you can facilitate and de-escalate situations.