10/13/2026
“How was school?”
“Fine.”
“What did you do?”
“Nothing.”
Sound familiar?
Sometimes the problem isn't that our children don't want to talk. It's that we're asking them to summarize an entire day when they're tired, hungry, or just ready to be home.
And sometimes they simply need a little time before they're ready to share.
In her latest article, Mind Body Align educator and mom Brooke Unger shares a few better ways to start conversations after school.
Instead of “How was school?” consider asking:
• What made you smile today?
• Did anything funny happen?
• What was something that felt hard today?
• Is there anything you want to tell me about?
And sometimes the best conversation starter is simply:
“I'm glad you're home.”
Read Brooke's article for more ideas about connecting with children and teens after a long school day.
https://mindbodyalign.com/family_resources/questions-to-ask-kids-after-school/
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