Parents First Training

"Self-regulation depends on having a friendly relationship with your body. Without it, you have to rely on external regulation—from medication, drugs like alcohol, constant reassurance, or compulsive compliance with the wishes of others." – Bessel van der Kolk

Join ORI's interactive seminar on The Primal Power of Play & Self-Regulation with Dr. Inna Rozentsvit, where she will explore the transformative power of play and its role in developing self-regulation through the lens of neuroscience and psychoanalysis.

Date: Saturday, March 29, 2025
Time: 12:00 PM – 3:15 PM EST
Location: Live Virtual Session via Zoom
CE's: 3 CEs for NYS Psychologists, NYS Social Workers, APA and Licensed Psychoanalysts

This interactive seminar will provide valuable insights and practical tools for mental health professionals, educators, and parents, covering:
- The neurobiological impact of play and its role in emotional regulation.
- How play contributes to the development of self-regulation and emotional resilience.
- Practical strategies for fostering self-regulation in individuals of all ages.

Learn more and register at: https://orinyc.org/the-primal-power-of-play-self-regulation-advanced-psychoneurobiological-perspectives/

The power of self-regulation is foundational to our well-being—shaped by both our neurobiology and life experiences. But how can we nurture it? How can we integrate it with another super-power - play?

Join Us on Saturday, March 29, 2025 (12-3pm EDT), for ORI's interactive seminar, useful for psychotherapy professionals, educators and parents: The Primal Power of Play & Self-Regulation: Advanced Psychoneurobiological Perspectives

Explore the deep connection between play, emotional regulation, and brain health. Through practical tools, cutting-edge neurobiology, and interactive learning, you'll discover how play isn’t just fun—it’s essential for developing emotional resilience and self-regulation.

Date: Saturday, March 29, 2025
Time: 12:00 PM – 3:15 PM EDT
Location: Virtual (via Zoom)
Continuing Education: 3 CEs for NYS Psychologists, NYS Social Workers, the APA and Licensed Psychoanalysts

🔗 Register now to Via: https://orinyc.org/the-primal-power-of-play-self-regulation-advanced-psychoneurobiological-perspectives/

🔹 Strengthening Parent-Child Communication: A Thoughtful Approach 🔹

Effective communication is essential for fostering a strong, trusting relationship with your child. Here are four key steps to enhance your interactions and create meaningful dialogue:

1️⃣ Adopt an Objective Perspective 👀
Take a step back and observe your interactions as a neutral third party. What aspects of your communication are effective? What challenges arise? Recognizing these patterns can provide valuable insights.

2️⃣ Understand Your Child’s Communication Style 🎭
Every child expresses themselves uniquely. Are they more reserved or outspoken? Logical or emotional? Tailoring your approach to align with their natural tendencies can lead to more productive conversations.

3️⃣ Communicate with Clarity and Empathy 💬
Express your concerns in a manner that is both respectful and constructive. Ensure your child feels heard, valued, and supported, even when discussing difficult topics.

4️⃣ Apply These Insights in Daily Interactions ✅
Reflection is only the first step—real growth comes from putting these strategies into practice. Approach each conversation with patience and adaptability to foster deeper understanding.

🎥 For a more in-depth exploration, watch the full video #6: https://youtu.be/o9ND_qifTeY

Discover additional insights in our parenting series on our website: https://parentsfirst.net/

Together, we can create stronger, more meaningful connections with our children.

We invite you to join ORI's upcoming seminar on The Primal Power Of Play & Self-regulation: Advanced Psychoneurobiological Perspectives" | 3 CEs for Mental Health Professionals
Date: Saturday, March 29, 2025 | 12:00 PM – 3:15 PM EST | Live Virtual Session via Zoom
"It is only in playing that the individual child or adult is able to be creative and to use the whole personality." —D.W. Winnicott
Discover how play isn't just fun—it's a fundamental biological need that shapes brain development and emotional well-being! This interactive seminar reveals:
- The evolutionary significance of play across species
- How "real play" differs from structured activities in its neurological impact
- Practical strategies for enhancing self-regulation through play
- The connection between play, stress management, and emotional resilience
Perfect for mental health professionals, educators, and parents seeking neuroscience-informed approaches.
Register here: https://orinyc.org/the-primal-power-of-play-self.../

The Power of Perspective: A Simple Parenting Tool

When conflict arises with your child, it's easy to focus only on your side of the story. But what happens when you step into their shoes?

Try this simple yet powerful exercise from ParentsFirst:

🔹 Write down a current conflict with your child from YOUR perspective.
🔹 Now, write the SAME situation from YOUR CHILD’S perspective.
🔹 Sit with both viewpoints—no need to rush to a solution.

This brain-based approach can reveal hidden communication gaps and foster deeper connections. Whether you're navigating school stress, bedtime battles, or daily frustrations, understanding both perspectives paves the way for better solutions.

What matters most is your willingness to look!

Have you ever tried seeing a conflict through your child's eyes? What did you learn?

Learn more by watching Video #5: https://youtu.be/1wf_xNQbL7o
Visit our website at https://parentsfirst.net/ for more brain-based parenting resources.

Finding Opportunity in Crisis: A Parenting Perspective

As parents, we're naturally wired to protect our children from difficulties and danger. But what about seeing the opportunities that hide within these challenges? How can we shift our perspective to help our children develop resilience, problem-solving skills, and confidence in the face of crisis?

In today's world of health concerns, economic pressures, and social challenges, it's easy to get stuck in a reactive mode. Learning to pause and reassess, and switching to proactive mode can open doors to new possibilities for you and your children.
Want to learn practical tools for transforming anxiety into opportunity?

Visit our website at https://parentsfirst.net/ for more brain-based parenting resources.

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What Makes Us Truly Intelligent? What Is Your Parenthood Quotient?
At Parents First, we're committed to supporting parents and children in their growth. Today, Mitchell Feigenberg, co-founder of Parents First, breaks down different forms of intelligence that contribute to our success in life.

From IQ to EQ, AQ to PQ, we all have unique strengths— but did you know there's also a Parenthood Quotient (PQ)? It's a new way of looking at parenting, and we want you to explore yours!

👉 Take a self-appraisal to discover your Parenthood Quotient: https://parentsfirst.net/

👀 Watch the full video to learn how we can help you improve your emotional, social, and parental intelligence: https://youtu.be/McugzauLc3k?si=ZFNY2SxC9ZwFMdHY

🌟 Parenthood Starts with YOU! 🌟
Did you know that the key to raising a thriving child starts with YOU, the parent? At Parents First, we focus on helping parents build a solid foundation for their children's futures by fostering their own personal growth. This is where the concept of the Parenthood Quotient (PQ) comes in.
The Parenthood Quotient is all about creating a nurturing environment that helps break negative cycles and positively influences both your life and your child's. Just like IQ and EQ, your PQ plays a crucial role in navigating the challenges of parenthood.
We invite you to take our Parenthood Self-Appraisal on our website and begin your journey towards strengthening both yourself and your family.
🔗https://parentsfirst.net/

Together, let's build a better future for our children!

Ready for a Shift in Your Parenting Journey?
Parenthood isn’t just about the tasks and duties that come with raising children. It’s much bigger than that. To truly thrive as parents, we need to embrace the full experience of parenthood—not just parenting.
Parenting is about what we do for our children. Parenthood, however, is about who we are as parents. It’s the heart and soul of the role we play in our children’s lives. Think of it like a song. The tasks we perform are the words, but the rhythm, the melody—the essence—is parenthood itself. When we embrace parenthood fully, we create an environment where both we and our children can grow and flourish.
If you’re ready to stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling more fulfilled as a parent, it’s time to step into this new paradigm.
Let’s make this shift together. 🌱
To learn more, explore our free 15-part educational video series and additional resources available on our website: https://parentsfirst.net/

Just wanted to share the information about and recommend to you a great new program led by our fellow member and a therapist/coach/lecturer, Victoria Grinman: Permission Slip Parenting. This program is perfectly designed for any parent/ parental figure, as well as anyone who works with parents, children, families. 

Permission Slip Parenting is based on the REAL method, that leads one to be REAL:

1) seek understanding rather than being focused on being Right;
2) be in Empowering context in all relationships, incl. the ones with the kids;
3) not being Attached to controlling things and relationships; and
4) Lead with Love!