04/14/2025
Chag Sameach to those who celebrate!
Normally our seders are somewhat hectic at times, filled with laughter and creativity, and focused on being kid- (and then teen-) friendly, but they’ve always followed the traditional and specific order (for the most part — with the exceptions of the years we did Bingo Seder and Backwards Seder!).
This year, we decided to “unseder” our Seder. For my friends who aren’t Jewish or who haven’t celebrated Passover before, “seder” means “order” in Hebrew, and traditionally, the Passover Seder follows a specific order. Right now, in 2025, everything feels out of order to us and we, as a family, don’t feel free to celebrate Passover in the way that we always have. When you have a member of your family who cannot safely come home to celebrate with family because of legislation that makes flying (or driving) into Texas unsafe, it makes it difficult to celebrate the freedoms we’ve always before taken for granted.
But we did want to celebrate our family and friends and community here in Houston, so we hosted a Passover Gathering instead. We still served matzah ball soup, and had charoset, maror, eggs, salt water, and parsley at a “make your own seder plate” table, and of course there were BBQ beef ribs and chicken (a Second Seder tradition in our house).
It felt right. Of course, I missed my LA kids, but it was nice to gather with Houston friends and family (including my son, daughter-in-love, and grandson at his first Second Seder!), and celebrate that — being together.
So Happy Passover, y’all.