07/17/2020
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After a certain amount of time being with someone, we all tend to get comfortable, some a little more than others, others A LOT more than some! I mean, you’ve seeing it or maybe you’ve experienced it OR maybe you are literally experiencing it right now...
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I’ve heard way too many of my female clients or female friends, say this “where’s the guy I first met!?” “He’s getting way too comfortable” “when I first met him he looked so different” “when we first started going out he would take me out all the time, no we barely go out” etc...
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This goes for women as well... the only thing Is I think woman do a better job of it, men get way more lazy and too comfortable in there relationship assuming the woman will NEVER leave him... I wouldn’t chance it, especially the more your girl interacts with other guys (because of her job or for whatever reason) she will begin to feel that initial excitement she first felt with you, and I truly believe no matter how much you’re in love with each other, any girl has the potential to be swept off her feet if the guy gets too comfortable, predictable and Lazy. Think about when you first met, what did you do, how much effort did you put in? And think of now, what’s the difference? I agree there can’t that intense passion the entire time, that’s not what I’m saying, it comes in waves, but there are active things you can do to make sure you’re not in your comfort zone for so long in your relationship:
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Every other week put a reminder on your phone to do something special, something not typical that y’all do together or something that requires for you to put effort, not something comfortable and easy you can do, like buy flowers at Ralph’s (5 minute task) and you’re done...
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I hate to say this, but I’m just gonna say it, I’ve noticed in several (way too comfortable) relationship where the couple gain weight, or one of them does, and it’s because of that massive amount of being in your comfort zone. Now follow me here... think about breakups for a second, just think about it.... how many times have you seeing the girl or the guy (or both) get ripped? Look great? Lose weight? Why? Think about it...