08/18/2026
If you’re a single woman over 30 who’s DONE “putting yourself out there,” has tried the therapy, the dating apps, the yoga retreats (maybe even the crystals ), and still can’t figure out why love is the ONE part of your life that isn’t working… this is for you. 👇
I know how frustrating it can be to swipe on every dating app and still end up single at every vacation and wedding.
When I was 36, I desperately wanted to find love while all of my best friends were getting engaged, married, and having babies.
Meanwhile, I was RSVPing to weddings as a party of one and going home to my Ben & Jerry’s and Real Housewives.
I was trying SO hard to put myself out there, and it wasn’t working.
That’s because when you’re single, over the age of 30, you don’t need to keep throwing spaghetti at the wall….swiping and trying to make conversations happen with men who can’t even ask you out.
You need a strategy that helps you w**d out the 99% of men who aren’t right for you and recognize the ones who are.
This is what took me from single and frustrated to meeting my husband in just 5 months.
Which is why I teach women the Secure Love Method inside of my program Find The One.
We combine secure attachment with practical dating strategy so you can stop getting hooked on emotionally unavailable men and start dating men who are consistent, emotionally available, and actually ready for a relationship.
You don’t need MORE men.
You need to get better at choosing the right ones.
If you’re tired of spending another year on Hinge wondering why dating feels so hard, DM me SOULMATE and I’ll send you the link to book a free Dating Strategy Call.
I’ll help you identify what’s keeping you single and your next steps to attract the relationship you actually want.