08/12/2022
This post by really resonated with me! I couldn’t post the phrases here so please check out the full post on her Instagram account.
It was directed at parents, but I connected with these phrases from my point of view as an educator. The two that most stood out to me, which I hear educators say all the time, are
(1) “Use your words” and (2) “You get what you get and you don’t get upset.”
Her explanations of why these phrases shouldn’t be used were spot on! Basically, it comes down to RESPECTING CHILDREN AND THEIR FEELINGS! I feel strongly that this should be a priority for educators. Children deserve our utmost respect, just as we (as adults) would expect that same respect from others for ourselves.
Children learn what respect for others looks like when we show children that we not only respect their feelings but that THEIR FEELINGS ARE VALID, by
1)acknowledging how they feel and helping them through their process…
2)giving them the time and space to feel…
3)reflecting together with them to find the words for their thoughts, feelings and emotions.
I worked with a co-teacher named Ana Maria for 10 years and she would always say, “You get what you get and you can be upset.” I thought of her when I read this post, and our years of great work together. We learned a lot together on our path as educators❣️